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    I dont think this forum allows polls? Anyway..

    Do u look at opposite gender?

    I try not to, but sometimes how can u not?? I mean, like when u r out/college/school/work u talk to opposit gender, and hey if they talk to u then u gotta reply...and sometimes u gotta talk to others for various reason, and then it kinda get carried away...but i think islamic way is really good and we should follow it, because it sustains u from other sins like adultery/crush etc

    So do u look at opposite gender?

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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

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    format_quote Originally Posted by metsudaistwice
    ok sis inshallah you will contain your modesty and allow other girls to be encouraged by you
    yeha i so hope so!!
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?


    well, i think sometimes its impossible...but othe times u can lower u gaze if u really wanna, like when u r going down the street and not look at them
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    some sisters who wear hijaab look attentively at males
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    bro i don't think you should make assumptions like that
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    format_quote Originally Posted by thc
    some sisters who wear hijaab look attentively at males
    that's real bad!

    ive witnessed that as well

    but then again who are we to judge?
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    yea it happens girls with 'hijaab' on do do that (time for big *sigh*)

    however girls hu wear the full hijaab and jilbaab etc .....i've noticed they tend to lower their gaze more than those hu wear that flimsy transparent 'all ur neck showing' teeny 2 inch scarf..they only wear that aswell because they have to.

    sisters who cover themselves properly are okay
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    Asalamu Alaikum

    'It takes two to tango.'

    How would you know she's looking at another brother guys less your looking at her yourself?

    Umm let's not forget, just because she's wearing a hijab, she's a pious Muslimah. I've seen niqaabis, hijabis, jilbabis, short skirties, tight dressies etc. all looking at brothers.
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    format_quote Originally Posted by muslimahimprovin
    yea it happens girls with 'hijaab' on do do that (time for big *sigh*)

    however girls hu wear the full hijaab and jilbaab etc .....i've noticed they tend to lower their gaze more than those hu wear that flimsy transparent 'all ur neck showing' teeny 2 inch scarf..they only wear that aswell because they have to.

    sisters who cover themselves properly are okay
    hmmm...true say!

    but then again you going to be judged on your intentions
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    Asalamu Alaikum

    you going to be judged on your intentions
    Have you botherd to read the commentry on this hadith?
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    yeah....y?
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    quite true brother Abdul
    i guess i'm speaking very broadly there.....Allah is the the best judge.
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    Asalamu Alaikum

    Uh ok Baby Girl.

    I want to relax, so I listen to some Bassline House. I'm not comming sin am I? My intention was to relax.
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    sister baby girl what do u mean
    'ill stare u in the face but i'm not doing it with a bad intention' :confused:
    ur intentions and acts shud be one.
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    may allah protect us from such fitnah and guide us to the Straight Path
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    Ameen.
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    Ameen *SAS sTyle*
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    ameen *SS the best style*
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Ammar View Post
    i also try not to look at them...nazar to par he jati hai..


    salaam!
    ii dont look at the opp gender but at times u have to like i have male lecturers so i gotto to look at them and talk...otherwise i study in all girlz college so i dont really get to see alot of guyz there .....
    ma'salamah
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?



    The only men I luk at:

    Shiekhs on the t.v
    teachers

    I always luk down wen I walk. Helps me to walk a lil faster.
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    Re: Do u look at opposite gender?

    format_quote Originally Posted by metsudaistwice View Post
    may allah protect us from such fitnah and guide us to the Straight Path


    AMEEN

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