im in VERY big trouble and i don't know at all how to react. i'm not asking for much help becuase i think its already too late. i've had soo many days thinking to myself "ugh..worst day ever".. but nothing compared to this ...
i was told today that im gona get a notice to my house for my parents to go to court..and all bcoz of me being 67% attendance at scl.
- after that, if my parents can't pay the fine of £1000 within 7 days then i get taken away for a month to foster care. nd today was the 1st tym i've eva heard of such a thing. i never got a warning either.
i kno.. its RIDICULOUS!.
im going to be honest with you. when i don't go to school i onli sit at home and get on with some other work because i kno the lessons in school would be a waste..- i'd get distracted by people around me... or they just do coursework and revision in those classes which i much rather do at home in my own pace while i can leave much time to do the relavent things.
school is like 40 minutes away whether i take the bus or walk. and those are the only two options for me.
i told my mum. and she's jus going on and on...n hre i am, jus sittin in misery till ma dad cmes hme 4rm work 2 get the news...[[absolutely horrified]]..
i dnt kno wot to do..i dnt kno if i can eva think ne worse of myself.
to top it all off...im sitting my gcse exams in 1 n a half weeks tym...
Salams sis, sorry to hear about your bad incidence I know how you feel sis sometimes I feel that way at school too that am not receiving as much knowledge as i wanted to learn but sis its a really hard time but bear through it with patient because you might get yelled at or whatever but just know that its all a test and the best thing to do is learn from your mistakes. If you feel as though the course is too easy for you then talk to the teachers and ask them to put you in advanced classes because thats what i did too and it worked so insha'allah sis I hope you the best.
With all due respect, why is everybody feeling 'sorry' for the sister? With attendance at 67% of course the school is going to be concerned and most schools don't tolerate truanting. You are required, by law, to say in full time education till the age of 16 so don't be surprised when threatening letters come through the post. They don't care whether you are studying at home or not. The fact that you aren't in school is what they do care about.
It takes you 40 minutes travel to school? Wake up a little earlier and make the trip. Seriously sis, your education is vital. Attendance records are something most schools definitely do take a look, so taking time off is likely not to harm your parents but also yourself.
InshaAllah, your school and parents will be able to work something out. Good luck in your exams.
sister dont worry all schools make threats but they cant just bust out of nowhere and send you a letter like this, they have to give prior warning, truss i talkin from experience
like when a school wants to exclude a stooodent they gota build it up, like not one thing and your gone, it has to be loads of thins to make you get excluded, same way if they report you to the education authorities, they have to warn you before. like they have to say your attendance is crap, improve it, and if they havent warned you before then your not at fault!
also you said, you prefer studyin at home, then thats good, because if they decide to take this further, say that i was at home studyin my self, because the teaching was crap sorted and your in a good situation like your parents know you was at home studyin, many bros and sisters bunk skool and then they get letters like these and then the parents ask "where was you" thats when they wana jus bury their own grave, so in a way your ok, because atleast you werent down at the local park or summin
also just try to do wikidd in your exams then you can show up the school and say you taught yourself all this,
remember one rule when dealing with schools, "no matter what happens, its always there fault"
inshallah dont worry, im sure its just a empty threat, but go down to the school and talk to them about it, find out all the details and explain yaself, and try to attend all the time now
Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!
"they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"
im in VERY big trouble and i don't know at all how to react. i'm not asking for much help becuase i think its already too late. i've had soo many days thinking to myself "ugh..worst day ever".. but nothing compared to this ...
i was told today that im gona get a notice to my house for my parents to go to court..and all bcoz of me being 67% attendance at scl.
- after that, if my parents can't pay the fine of £1000 within 7 days then i get taken away for a month to foster care. nd today was the 1st tym i've eva heard of such a thing. i never got a warning either.
i kno.. its RIDICULOUS!.
im going to be honest with you. when i don't go to school i onli sit at home and get on with some other work because i kno the lessons in school would be a waste..- i'd get distracted by people around me... or they just do coursework and revision in those classes which i much rather do at home in my own pace while i can leave much time to do the relavent things.
school is like 40 minutes away whether i take the bus or walk. and those are the only two options for me.
i told my mum. and she's jus going on and on...n hre i am, jus sittin in misery till ma dad cmes hme 4rm work 2 get the news...[[absolutely horrified]]..
i dnt kno wot to do..i dnt kno if i can eva think ne worse of myself.
to top it all off...im sitting my gcse exams in 1 n a half weeks tym...
Salamualikum.
Join ze crew blud. Just chillax that lies. They always say that! They can't take you down nor parents maybe fine yes but just bounce and chill nothing will happen. Get a 'fake' letter from doctor saying you was ill :X
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and your in a good situation like your parents know you was at home studyin, many bros and sisters bunk skool and then they get letters like these and then the parents ask "where was you" thats when they wana jus bury their own grave, so in a way your ok, because atleast you werent down at the local park or summin 
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