:(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:( (OP)
It's so hard to believe that my grandfather recovered from the 1 week old heart surgery and now he's no longer in this world. Now my grandmother's in the hospital. I don't think she can handle this. May Allah make it easy on her and give us all sabr. Please make dua'. (As u can see, im not not doin a good job with the dua)
inshaAllah the sis will be allright, Allah knows best, his in control, inshaAllah jannah awaits the sis and her family
Ameen to all the beautiful dua's
Ameen, I cant help myself i say sorry simply because of knowing what the poor sister is going though but your right still..
May Allah swt make it easy for you sis
Re: :(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(
format_quote Originally Posted by Kittygyal
Salamialikum.
Awwwwwwww Ina lillahi wa ina ilai raji'oon.
My poor bbz . I fell for you! indeed it is a very hard thing loosing a loved one. Don't worry am ALWAYS here for you no matter what. Chin up and remember the good times inshallah. I know it will be hard and a very tuff time for your family and your self including your nan but this is down to Allah Subhanwtallah. We return back to him so inshallah lets have sabr and just keep on performing dua'ah.
Do dua'ah we meet our love ones in janah-ul-Furdus inshallah
Afghani am ALWAYS here for you so please don't cry because i told you before if you be hurt i feel the pain aswel thats how much we are attached together!. Subhnallah, nowadays sooo many people dying over soo many issues but its the will of Allah subhwnatallah. One day we will be in the same situation and position that your nan is. So lets all be prepared and just ask for forgivness from Allah subhwnatallah and make dua'ah to Allah subhwnatallah that he the almighty forgives your nan for anything bad he has done in past and lead him to Janah inshallah.
Jazak Allah for being there Kitty. It's getting to me worse every moment that passes by. He was a good man and always quiet and humble. The good times?...I hardly ever spent time with him. but i still feel the pain of his loss....just by knowing that he was here alive and in good health was good for us...but his time was up and Allah took his soul...
Am all yours sis. So please don't cry am always here for you. Walahi i am always here for you. You may think these are only words and Snowy is sat other end of the world compared to me but NO! am in your heart and so are you so lets just do dua'ah, best thing ever is dua'ah inshallah.
By the way one way or another your mom will find out so inshallah it will be a very hard time when she finds out but luck after her please inshallah. Take it easy just relax and just do dua'ah as i have mentioned enough times inshallah.
Smile Afghani you don't suit crying please.
you know where i am when you need me even for the littlest thing i am all ears
Eventually my mom will find out. My granparents are actually 2,000 mi. away...they went to AZ to see my uncle...i think their gonna bring his body to NY so that they can do the funeral here....that way, all my aunts and uncles can share their pain....i wish i could smile...it's so painful...i've never been through sooo much pain....Jazak Allah for all the comments and Ameen to all the dua's....luv u loads kitty...
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Sister Al-Imaan.. I am so very sorry for your loss and grievances-- insha'Allah your family will come closer together during this hard time and may Allah grant you all As Sabr wa Silwan... I think what your grandfather needs now most is du'a that he be received in Allah's mercy in heaven's high meads Amên and Amên to all the du'a
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Re: :(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(
format_quote Originally Posted by al_imaan_786
Jazak Allah for being there Kitty. It's getting to me worse every moment that passes by. He was a good man and always quiet and humble. The good times?...I hardly ever spent time with him. but i still feel the pain of his loss....just by knowing that he was here alive and in good health was good for us...but his time was up and Allah took his soul...
salamualikum.
Bbz i understand exactly how you feel, i have alot of sincere pain for you because indeed i have lost a variety or numerous people from my fmaily and friends who have left me behind . I know it's hard to imagine not having your love ones here with you when all that time they were alive and now a sudden chnage has grasp your attention. Subhnallah, we should thank allah subhwnatallah for everything my dearest hun. The good times eh? well seriously just do dua'ah even if you never spent enough time with him i know that sux when you lost a loved one and never hardly seen the person often but best thing ever is 'dua'ah' inshallah. Thats what is going to go down with us inshallah. Mashallah. Very nice to hear indeed that he was a good man and quiet and humble mashallah respect. See atleast you remember he is the best nan for life subhnallah.
Sis ask me it's very hard when someone has left you all alone but you need to understand if your going to suffer with this pain in your life then you will end up being ill and it isn't good for you. I used to do that and still do but what am i going to do crying day/night? would that really help me? would i just not kill myself? why harm myself or just sit crying that so doesn't help. We need to have sabr and pray to Allah subhwnatallah. Okay a tear may drop and memmories but we can't live like this forever it's harmful and can cause depression which may lead to serious illness. So please take care ofd your self please atleast for Snowy inshallah.
Indeed it was up to Allah subhwnatallah. We can not do anything now but apart from the best thing which is dua'ah inshallah. I will always remember you and your family and nan in my humble dua'ahs inshallah, you do the same aswel.
Eventually my mom will find out. My granparents are actually 2,000 mi. away...they went to AZ to see my uncle...i think their gonna bring his body to NY so that they can do the funeral here....that way, all my aunts and uncles can share their pain....i wish i could smile...it's so painful...i've never been through sooo much pain....Jazak Allah for all the comments and Ameen to all the dua's....luv u loads kitty...
Inshallah she will find out, a very hard thing for her but please take care of her aswel and your self. Take the funeral over and done with then just take it easy bbz please. i know it kills you alot from inside but this is life for us all. Look am ALWAYS here for you and will be forever okay.
Only if i was in US then i will come right now to you but what a piety am in UK at moment. But hey were still Snowy+Afghani right? soo... sis i always love u okay bbz?
I have to bounce now i will get back to you A.S.A.P. inshallah
Mwah. please luck after ya self please and your mom and nan and rest of family inshallah please.
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Awwww Kitty, your da best. of course it's always Snowy aka Kitty + Afghani *hugz*...this is just the first day that we're going through...maybe things will get better after a little while...but first dayz are always the hardest...aint it?....Thank u loads for being there kitty...and everyone else....I just can't wait till my mom knows then we can share the pain......i'll eventually get over it but maybe not the pain...and once again, Jazak Allah for the dua's everyone....Ma'asalama
Re: :(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(
Sorry to hear of your loss sis. I pray to Allah to have mercy on your grandfather's soul turn his grave into a peaceful abode with the scents and noor of Jannah. May He in His unlimited mercy grant him the highest station in jannahtul-firdaus and give you sabr in what is His will. Ameen.
Please inform your mother asap sis and be strong for her inshaAllah. May Allah make it easy for you all. (Hugs).
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Ameen to the previous duas
Sorry to hear such news sis Inna lilahi wa'ina'ilahi raji'un. May Allah swt have mercy upon your Grandfather, make the questioning in the grave easy upon him and help you and your family get through this time and give you all sabr. InshaAllah by the will of Allah swt our Lord May he enter into a truly magnificent place. Ameen thumma ameen
Stay strong sis, and help your family come to terms with the loss of your loved one. Just remember we are here as mere travellers.
FiamanAllah
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Re: :(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(
format_quote Originally Posted by al_imaan_786
Awwww Kitty, your da best. of course it's always Snowy aka Kitty + Afghani *hugz*...this is just the first day that we're going through...maybe things will get better after a little while...but first dayz are always the hardest...aint it?....Thank u loads for being there kitty...and everyone else....I just can't wait till my mom knows then we can share the pain......i'll eventually get over it but maybe not the pain...and once again, Jazak Allah for the dua's everyone....Ma'asalama
Salamualikum.
Ya Ukthi am always here for you like i said before many times . Inshallah better of telling your Mom quick before it's turns out dull, as it's the first day/night it's very tuff indeed but inshallah these things happen so chin up and pray for your nan and nana inshallah
Ma'assalama
Re: :(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(
Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun.
May grant him jannat and give the family sabr...ameen
Ameen to the previous duas
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Ibn Abī Mulaykah said: "I encountered thirty Companions of the Prophet, every one of them fearing hypocrisy for himself." [Muslim]
Re: :(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(
Inna lillahi wa inna illayhi raji'oun.
May Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) grant your grandfather ease in the qabr and grant him Jannatul Firdaws, and may He grant sabr and strength to your family during this hardship. Ameen.
"...You are my Walî in this world and in the Hereafter. Cause me to die as a Muslim, and join me with the righteous." [Surah Yusuf 101]
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format_quote Originally Posted by Fi_Sabilillah
Innaa lillaahi wa inna alayhi raji'oon.. may Allaah have mercy on them and the ummah, and may He grant us all His Mercy in this life and the next. ameen.
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format_quote Originally Posted by youngsister
sis i am soo sorry subxanallah may Allah swt make the grave a good place for him and grant him jannah fardus isha allah
ameen(to all the previous dua).
*hugs*
Ameen....Khuda bubakhchash khurak wa dua maykunam ke famili shumara Khudawand sabr beta....
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It's so hard to believe that my grandfather recovered from the 1 week old heart surgery and now he's no longer in this world.
i say sorry simply because of knowing what the poor sister is going though but your right still..
Salamialikum.
:'(
kay:
. Inshallah better of telling your Mom quick before it's turns out dull, as it's the first day/night it's very tuff indeed but inshallah these things happen so chin up and pray for your nan and nana inshallah
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