:(:(:(...Inna Lillahi wa inna Ilaihi Rajioon! :(:(:(

Oh I am so sorry to hear about your granparents!

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon! May Allah Ta'ala protect him from the punishment of the grave and enter him in to Jannah!



Fi Amani Allah

"Innaa lillaahi wa inna alayhi raji'oon"
i am sorry to here the news. May allah tala reward your grandfather to Jannah and give your family ease and sabr inshallah.
Take care and be strong!!

ameen thuma ameen to all the duaas

Let not tears for the departed glaze our sight
For this duniya is temporary... merely a flight
One by one we shall be freed from this prison
We submit to Allah's will, whatever the reason
Alhumdulillah to everything, even if seems bad
Say alhumdulillah always, even when you're sad

love & hugs to al-imaan sis

As Salamu Aleykum wa rahmatullaah

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajiuun
Dont Worry sis, Inshallah Allah will reserve ur Grandpa a place in Jannatul Firdaws!! And May He Have mercy upon him , and the rest of the believers!!

Salamualikum.
Bbz how are you? haven't heard much from you from these few past days hope everything is aright inshallah. I miss you
are you eating healthy?
how is your health?
how is your mom?
did you tell her?
has the grave been sent off?
Ma'assalama

format_quote Originally Posted by al_imaan_786

I've missed u too kitty ....here's what happened (if u'r interested)

On Wed. night, my dad told my mom about the situation cuz he felt really bad for her. then he called my aunt and told her...everyone came over my house and we're all cryin.....we had to get the fact through our head that the more we cry, the more harder it'll be for my grandfather....things were worse than I expected...Well, when we got to NY on Thursday, my aunts were standing in the hallway of my grandma's house waiting for us...they told my mom to control her tears cuz my grandma was in a bad state @ that point. we went into the living room and about 30 ppl were seated, about half were my family. I just sat there without saying "salam" to anyone, my mom fell to my grandma's feet and cried like she never did before...when she got up, my cuzin told me it was the best time to say salam to her and everyone else. When i reached her, i just collapsed in her arms and felt like i was melting.....I tried to calm her, but i was cryin myself....It was so sad....at 8:30 that thursday nite, my grandfather's body arrived at the funeral home of the masjid. The mullah was someone that my family knew well...everyone arrived there and he told us to stay in the waiting area while they got my grampa ready. As soon as they told us, everyone rushed in. He looked as if he were sleeping, his face filled w/ noor. I kissed his hands, forehead, cheeks and also touched his beard just like he used to. My aunts kissed his feet and everyone was goin crazy. We cried alot. But had to stop at some point. Everyone really tried hard not to cry. They did a fair job @ it. My cuzin was readin dua's in his ear, and both his index fingers went up like u do it in salat. The wound from his operation had still not healed. When they washed his body, my uncle told us that when they removed the tube from his arm, he started bleeding.
The next day before salatul janazah, they bought his coffin to his house and his face was shown one last time. It was very sad. On sat. morning after fajr, my aunts and uncles and a few of my cuzins, we went to his grave and read quran and made dua. I'm still in a state of denial. I can't believe he left us. May Allah have mercy on him and grant him Jannah....one more thing, everytime someone would come over my grandma's house or call, my mom and her sisters would cry. and rite some lady called and my moms cryin again...its very sorrowful...I never knew I loved him so much. We would never think to ourselves that the time is going to come one day, i guess that's y it got to us really hard.......Jazak Allah for all the comments and Ameen to the dua's..

Salamualikum.
Om... all i can say is Subhnallah!
Amin to the dua'ah. I know you wouldn't belive me after all its NET but walahi i am sat infront typing and whilst reading your post i shed into tears that really got to me
Bbz i know it's very hard to loose a love one but remember amm always here for you, take care of ya mom and everyone else but most importantly YOURSELF please.
Love ya
Ma'assalama

Yours Kitty for eva xx (((Hugz)))

Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji'oon

My Allah allow ur grandfather into Janaat Al Fidrous inshallah, Im sorry to hear about ur grandfather , I miss my grandfather very much it hurts but I then assure myself that he is in a better place, this world is like a cage for us and sis death is only the beginning, I pray you all will be reunited with your grandfather in jannah and I pray your grandma's heath improves. Do not worry, everytime you think of your grandfather jus think that he is with ALLAH (swt) now. Be patient my sister be patient. If you need to talk then im here as well, anytime sis, tke cre now.

Salamualikum.
If you come online whenever i just wana say i miss you and i hope your okay along with family inshallah
Love u and miss you loads ((hugz))
Ma'assalama xx

When sorrow bites and the heart sheds tears of blood
You ask why this happened and would've stopped it if you could
Your imaan drops a level or two, no matter how strong it was
But pious souls of the departed, care not for your loss


For they, you see, are glad to have been freed
From a worldly prison of fitnah, sin and greed
They understand not, why you cry at their departure
For they have witnessed their Jannah, in the Here-After


Hadiths say, mourn not their death for more than three days
Endless sorrow means grudging Allah's will and His ways
Remember them in the way that pleases Allah and helps the deceased
Convey rewards to them by reciting Al-Qur'an, which they now need


And remember, the pious soul is happy that he's passed
And cannot understand why your head is so messed
He's been given glad tidings that Jannah shall be his
"Why do you cry?" he asks, "When I've been given this?"


So, when sorrow weakens your imaan and the cracks begin to show
Remember Allah loves those, who submit to His will and bow
Even in sadness, remember that the deceased soul is now helpless
Shed not tears in vain but use them to beg for his forgiveness


For some, though, Jannah might come after a spell in the Fire
Your sorrow won't help, all they want is your prayer
"If only you knew"! says the soul to himself
"You'd forget about me and start crying for yourself."


I'm not saying, you shouldn't feel sad or cry
But that, to sorrow, the balm of imaan you should apply
You see, there's no wound that imaan cannot heal
Accepting Allah's will is the deal


So cry a little and make duaa a lot
Nothing's more important for the deceased - forget that not
When we depart from this world one day, sooner or later
We'll too be needing duaas to help us in the Here-After


love & hugs al-Imaan sis

format_quote Originally Posted by al_imaan_786

kitty, im there but ur not....anyway, Jazak Allah for all the support...*Hugs*...and i miss u too...


and anonymous aka asian queen, May Allah give u sabr like He gave me and grant ur loved one a home in Jannah. Ameen.

Salamualikum.
I am here Afghani am here all the way.

Om... is this my Queen, shoot. Am sowiee to hear about your loss. Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji'oon


amin to the dua'ah

ma'assalama

Salamualikum.
How are you Afghani? everything okay, Mom,papa,Nan etc etc and YOURSELF?
How is Nan?
Ma'assalama Take care