I am sorry for your troubles akhi... I am not sure how to offer advise on such scanty details, but will tell you this much, whatever doesn't kill you--can only make you stronger...
hang tough...
You'll be in our thoughts and du'a
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The only one who will never betray us is Allah(swt). Every other creation of Allah's(swt) can and will betray us, either deliberatly or through error. Fortunatly most of the time any betrayal is through error, but it still hurts.
Accept the fact you are human and so is the one or more who you feel have betrayed you.
Pray that they may forgive you for not accepting the fact they are frail and have human faults one of which is the ability to betray you. Let them have the chance to forgive you and than you can open your heart to forgive them for their weakness.
No matter who they are, no matter how close. They will for definitely once in your life let you down some how. Everyone except one, upon Him you can base an ultimate trust and he will never let you down. Allah, Lord of the Worlds.
listen what ever has happened, there was a reason for it, Allah (swt) chose for it too happen in ya kismat, also in the hadiths it says when your faced with a calamity remmeber Allah (swt) and you will get so much reward, i know its hard yeh, but its happen, its over, like dont think about it, because your most likely to get ya self more upset as they say "why cry over split milk" its gone its history, look to the future innit and be happy
i hope you get your smile back bro
Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!
"they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"
be happy, dnt show them your feelings, dnt blame life, cherish it. life is nothing but a test. pray 2 Allah and w8 patiently. becuz at the end of the tunnel there is light!
Dude u got 2 threads or sutin?
Anyways, inshaAllah you'll get thru it, make dua..
I had a wrestle with an alligator, i had a tussle with a whale, I handcuffed lightning, thrown thunder in jail! Only last week i murdered a rock, injured a stone, hospitalised a brick, im so mean i make medicine sick
"If you even dream of beating me you'd better wake up and apologise!" kay:
How are you feeling, just wrote this for you, inshallah it will help.
100%
There is 100% hate and feeling of betrayl
this will change to 90% of feeling upset and confused
eventaully 80% will turn into realisation of the event
which will make 70% feel a bit bitter and hopefully theyll repent
but then only 60% will begin to care,
soon only 50% of it will be there
before you know it 40% of you will realise that you strongr than you thought
30% of it will make you stronger and shape you, you will no longer be distraught
20% will then be there for you to ocasionaly wonder
until one day you realsie only 10% is left and then you will ponder
about what happened to that person and if they learnt their lesson.. eventaully too ur pain will lessen
You no longer feel any hate or betryal or hurt anymore
there will be only 1% left in your heart, to remind you about what happened before
we get betrayed
when we get let astray
by those whom we trust
but dont let it hurt you
Allah will see you through
He is the almighty, he is the just...
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as they say "why cry over split milk" its gone its history, look to the future innit and be happy
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