I though he was the one for me....we had so much planned and we were gonna get married...but how could he do this to me?!
He said he loves me...and I told him let's get married...then I found out he's engaged to someone else...and guess what he loves her as well...and she is my friend (was my friend ) I heard everything he said about me behind my back..calling me a ***** when I never even done anything I swear Allah is my witness I never let him touched me and we never dated, and he wasn't my boy friend, we were not like that...we chose to follow the rules and do this properly...what am I sayin? there is no we nomore!!!
and I love him with all my heart I swear on my mother's life and he let me down when I needed him the most..and yes I'm trying to get over it...it is the only thing I can do but I swear if I come across him..he will pay....I mean when he found out I knew...he stopped contacting me...never returned my texts or emails, or pick up when I called him...never even said sorry for how things have turned out...and my ex-friend said that she didn't know anything about me and him...and he told her that we had nothing going...he just saw me around it was 'asalaam alaykum', 'waalaykum salaam'...OH ...yes yes I am really pissed off sorry for swearing on here..he broke my heart...and this quietness is killing me...I have decided..i'm going round his house..I don't care if his parents are there or not...I WONT LEAVE UNTIL I HAVE AN EXPLANATION FOR HIS BEHAVIOUR!!!
sis, isn't he supposed to talk to someone who is your mahram? your father or brother? instead of stopping you and start talking to u just like that?
innit!?
sis just make du'aa inshaa'Allaah that Allaah gives you whatever is best for you, and if deep down you really like this bro make isitkhaarah.
But gotta say nice one!! I'm glad you stood your ground maashaa'Allaah, i honestly dislike it when people think they can try to sweet talk u get u to agree and then laaaaaaaaaaater if they're still bothered they go to your parents UFF
miskeenah ur friend n all, may Allaah give you two whatever is best for you!
Blessed, blessed is that tongue, O my soul, which sings the Glorious Praises of the Lord God.
Sublime, pure and pious is that head, O my soul, which falls at the Lords Feet.
Nanak is a sacrifice to those, O my soul, who hear of the Lord, and believe in the Lord's Name.
and if deep down you really like this bro make isitkhaarah.
brother Abdul Raheem Green gave a very good explanation about the "love".
He said that when you see a person and you say "ohhh I love/like him sooo much", it's not love, that is just passion. But love is something that during the life with that person that u live, as u get older, the passion is gone, and the love starts to show up, so you can see the plain love. So love is something that is developed , not something that u see the person and "oh I like him".
so my advise would be, if you that think that guy is a good man, and pious, and matches you, so you can live with him, then yeah you could do something, but if he doesn't match with u, but u just have this thing "oh but I love him", then remember that the passion will be gone very quickly, and the pure love will be left between u and him.
there is a saying in my country that says : "The beauty is one sunday and two jumma's".
i'm not saying that you shouldn't look at someone for beauty, of course, it's is a very important thing, but not leave everything behind, and concentrate 100% in beauty (which makes u fall in "love"), and who knows what type of person is the man you're looking for. so take in consideration all of the things, if you think he matches u, than try to do something, but if not, then leave it.
Allah knows what is the best for u.
i hope allah makes it easy for u. all i can say is please keep prayin and make sincere dua.. so sincere that ur cryin so much that ur flooding the place. pray istikhara salah ,it m8 help, i cant speak from experience,
alhamdulliah alot of the advice said on here is useful.. please do not go to his house, be strong... he has knows he has made a big mistake, believe me and he will be repenting , all u need is Allah, he really is testing u at the moment. Have Sabr, may allah give you it inshallah. Only Allah will tell u if he is the one, whether its real love or just passion!
May allah do best for you inshallah
no she means me..those who reply my thread please dont post anonymously you confuse people
The stupid guy told my parents he wants to marry me..thats why he has been harrassing me lately
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) I heard everything he said about me behind my back..calling me a ***** when I never even done anything I swear Allah is my witness I never let him touched me and we never dated, and he wasn't my boy friend, we were not like that...we chose to follow the rules and do this properly...what am I sayin? there is no we nomore!!!
...yes yes I am really pissed off sorry for swearing on here..he broke my heart...and this quietness is killing me...I have decided..i'm going round his house..I don't care if his parents are there or not...I WONT LEAVE UNTIL I HAVE AN EXPLANATION FOR HIS BEHAVIOUR!!!
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