need advice A.S.A.P

**AnonymousPoster** · 08-13-2007

Salaam
Dear brother and sister ,i think my husband is suffering from waswaas.It has been going from long time. He has become moody and iritable and constantly fights.Now he has stopped talking to me and tries to live his own life . I am trying to cope with the kids and his mum and brother.His whole personality has changed.He used to tell me that he gets bad thoughts about us.I encouraged him to lot of dua instead of paying attentions to these thoughts, but now it seems he totally depressed. I cant see him like this and at times i lose my temper also.BUT ONLY AFTER long provocation.
Is there any special dua which i can make.PLS pray for me and my innocent kids who r also suffering due to there father

I have suggested counselling and going to c the doctor but he refuses

**IbnAbdulHakim** · 08-14-2007

subhanAllah,

sis get someone to talk to him! someone he loves n trusts inshaAllah who is a good muslim.

may Allah grant him hidayaat

**Ourra-Tul-'Ain** · 08-14-2007

Originally Posted by AnonymousGender

Salaam
Dear brother and sister ,i think my husband is suffering from waswaas.It has been going from long time. He has become moody and iritable and constantly fights.Now he has stopped talking to me and tries to live his own life . I am trying to cope with the kids and his mum and brother.His whole personality has changed.He used to tell me that he gets bad thoughts about us.I encouraged him to lot of dua instead of paying attentions to these thoughts, but now it seems he totally depressed. I cant see him like this and at times i lose my temper also.BUT ONLY AFTER long provocation.
Is there any special dua which i can make.PLS pray for me and my innocent kids who r also suffering due to there father

I have suggested counselling and going to c the doctor but he refuses

sorry for my ignorance

, but what does waswaas mean?

**jzcasejz** · 08-14-2007

As-Salaamu'alaykum

Originally Posted by Ourra-Tul-'Ain

sorry for my ignorance

, but what does waswaas mean?

It means Satanic Whispers. And that's not ignorance lol, it was just a question.

To the original poster: Go to this thread and check it out, there's plenty of good links and stuff there: http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-s...-thoughts.html

**Ourra-Tul-'Ain** · 08-14-2007

Originally Posted by jzcasejz

As-Salaamu'alaykum

It means Satanic Whispers. And that's not ignorance lol, it was just a question.

To the original poster: Go to this thread and check it out, there's plenty of good links and stuff there: http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-s...-thoughts.html

jazakallah khair brother:sunny:

.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “That is a devil called Khanzab. If he affects you seek refuge in Allah from him and spit drily to your left three times.” He [the Sahaabi] said, I did that and Allaah took him away from me.
(Narrated by Muslim, 2203)

**jzcasejz** · 08-14-2007

^ JazaakAllaah Khayr, that's a good cure for Waswaas.

BTW, I repped you but instead of Hadeeth I wrote Nasheed, accident.

**AnonymousPoster** · 08-14-2007

Salaam
Jazakallah brothers and sisters for all the good advice,but he is quiet religious himself and knows all this. What i was wondering whether i can make dua for his thoughts and try to help him in some ways.He said he was reading dua but the whispers r quiet strong
inshallah i will try to follow thw link .