How come the people you least expect to hurt you end up doing it anyway?! why do people play with trust and are sooo deceitful? what do they gain out of it? showing the world around them that there couldn't be possibly anyone better than them! Don't they know in the end they've just made matters complicated for you and hurt you for what they seemed to be? i can't but hate such a person! I don't understand why this person does this and how many more times they're going to go round doing the same thing to others.
when u feel so vile and hateful because you simply find some sides of a person v.ugly! what do you do? I hate feeling the way I do for this person but its just soo ugly to me!!!! never have I felt like this about someone before so its bugging me as well...subhan'Allah & to think I thought of this person in such a high light ... may Allah forgive my for my wrong..and guide all those who do wrong away from it..Aameeen!!!!
I guess ultimately we love feesabilillah - i.e. all that Allah loves and brings about His pleasure, similarly we hate feesabilillah i.e. all that causes Allah's displeasure and that which is utter disobedience towards Him. Just leave it to Allah and like someone said, pray for the persons guidance insha'Allah who knowS? Allah indeed guides whom he wills! forgetting the things which the person has done to hurt you will take time so insha'Allah don't stress yourself out with it, seriously its just not worth it ...some people just seriously need to fear Allah! and think twice before doing things!!
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There are always at least three sides to every issue. As you see it, as the person sees it and as Allaah(swt) sees it. Only one of those sides really matters.
Do what you can to make it pleasing to Allaah(swt) and don't worry too much about the other person. You have no power to change the things another does. But, Allaah(swt) will give you the strength to change your attitudes and actions. that is all that needs or can be done.
jazaak'Allahu khairan. ^
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Yahyâ ibn Mu‘âdh (rahimahullâh) said: “Renew your hearts with the remembrance of Allâh because it rushes into forgetfulness.”
One piece of advice I would give you is that 'don't get angry'. It is of no use - you'll get yourself in trouble. Either you will say something you regret, or you will do something you regret. And you will be the 'bad person' in the end. Don't get angry.
The need for patience exists in every thing you ever do. You must try to think of your own shortcomings and own issues that need to be worked on. Is there anyway you can improve yourself? Focus on yourself, and leave others to themselves. Anger will get you no where but in a worse position.
Trust me, I'm talking from experience.
Peace
“Verily passion turns kings into slaves, and patience turns slaves into kings…Do you not see the story of Yusuf and Zulaykha?”
One piece of advice I would give you is that 'don't get angry'. It is of no use - you'll get yourself in trouble. Either you will say something you regret, or you will do something you regret. And you will be the 'bad person' in the end. Don't get angry.
The need for patience exists in every thing you ever do. You must try to think of your own shortcomings and own issues that need to be worked on. Is there anyway you can improve yourself? Focus on yourself, and leave others to themselves. Anger will get you no where but in a worse position.
Trust me, I'm talking from experience.
Peace
masha'Allah sis, great advice!
there's a quote not sure whether its a hadeeth or not, which goes something like this:
"the true sincere Muslim is never twisted ambiguous, incoherent or deceitful"
^ may Allah protect us from having such attributes in our character Aameen!
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Yahyâ ibn Mu‘âdh (rahimahullâh) said: “Renew your hearts with the remembrance of Allâh because it rushes into forgetfulness.”
The Wolves within ....... (story to do with anger and hatred)
An old Grandfather, whose grandson came to him with anger at a schoolmate who had done him an injustice, said, "Let me tell you a story. I too, at times, have felt a great 'hate' for those that have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they do. But hate wears you down, and does not hurt your enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these feelings many times."
He continued, "It is as if there are two wolves inside me; one is good and does no harm. He lives in harmony with all around him and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way."
"But the other wolf, ah! He is full of anger. The littlest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my soul."
The boy looked intently into his Grandfather's eye and asked, "Which one wins, Grandfather?"
The Grandfather solemnly said, "The one I feed."
“Verily passion turns kings into slaves, and patience turns slaves into kings…Do you not see the story of Yusuf and Zulaykha?”
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arghhh DECEITFUL! People!!!!!!! (OP)
may Allah forgive my for my wrong..and guide all those who do wrong away from it..Aameeen!!!!
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i pray for the persons sake they don't do this kinda thing again. inshaAllah J/K dudette.
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