if the biggest fitna for men is women...

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 29, 2009

as stated clearly in ahadeeth,

then what is the biggest fitnah for women? men? I THINK NOT !

Assalamu Alaikum

“I am not leaving behind me any fitnah that is more harmful to men than women "
Narrated by al-Bukhaari

“This world is fresh and sweet, and Allaah has appointed you over it, so see how you will do. Fear this world and fear women, for the first fitnah faced by the Children of Israel had to do with women.” Narrated by Muslim

‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.” (Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045)

Re.TiReD · Jan 29, 2009

is that an actual question?

AssalamuAlaykum

S_87 · Jan 29, 2009

then what is the biggest fitnah for women? men? I THINK NOT

could u clarify what you mean here :-[

Musaafirah · Jan 29, 2009

Umm. What are you on?
What do you mean I think not? You're saying men are completely harmless?

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 29, 2009

is that an actual question?

AssalamuAlaykum

better believe it

could u clarify what you mean here

is the fitnah mutual?

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 29, 2009

Musaafir said:
Umm. What are you on?
What do you mean I think not? You're saying men are completely harmless?

no sis not completely harmless

just im wondering if the biggest fitnah for women is men or not.

thats it.

thats really it.

no really theres no more to it.

please stop looking into this.

Musaafirah · Jan 29, 2009

Oh. I thought you were implying that.
Right. Do you have the answer then or are ye gathering evidences and opinions?

Re.TiReD · Jan 29, 2009

Hmm

Women = Fitnah for men

Women also = extremely sensitive creatures

Man = Kinda tough I guess when it comes to emotions and stuff

So although Women are fitnah for men arent men more of a fitnah for women considering their (womens) hearts are softer and they might be affected more?

Although of course I guess her gaze is less likely to fall on an ajnabee man as much as his gaze will fall on an ajnabiyyah

Blah

S_87 · Jan 29, 2009

oh in that case i htink men are fitnah for women but women can handle and control their desires better.

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 29, 2009

Musaafir said:
Oh. I thought you were implying that.
Right. Do you have the answer then or are ye gathering evidences and opinions?

i thot the answer is best received from the source - ie you sisters

So although Women are fitnah for men arent men more of a fitnah for women considering their (womens) hearts are softer and they might be affected more?

Although of course I guess her gaze is less likely to fall on an ajnabee man as much as his gaze will fall on an ajnabiyyah

Blah

the softest heart i ever knew was of a man, our nabi sallallahi alaihi wasallaam

guess so too... it works both ways init?

stay tuned! we're about to find out !

Re.TiReD · Jan 29, 2009

amani said:
oh in that case i htink men are fitnah for women but women can handle and control their desires better.

Manu :statisfie

Re.TiReD · Jan 30, 2009

Fighting4Iman said:
stay tuned! we're about to find out !

I dont see the point, *scratches head* the hadeeth is clear... but if nothing has been said about men being the biggest fitnah for women then why try to get an opinion on it. Nothing has been said. Khallas.

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 30, 2009

Amatul Wadud said:
I dont see the point, *scratches head* the hadeeth is clear... but if nothing has been said about men being the biggest fitnah for women then why try to get an opinion on it. Nothing has been said. Khallas.

oh theres a point trust me

a huge point

but looks like, by the replies, us men truelly are harmless.

mashAllah mashAllaah

thread closed n all that i guess

Assalamu Alaikum

Olive · Jan 30, 2009

So what is the BIGGEST fitnah then?

Musaafirah · Jan 30, 2009

Personal opinion. Yeah maybe I would consider a dude as the greatest fitnah, trust so many girls I know seem to be dating or what not and they're all muslim! It's like this thing, when my mates and that turned 13/14 BOOM! Guys galore. Annoyingly they seemed to have given into temptation...

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 30, 2009

Musaafir said:
Personal opinion. Yeah maybe I would consider a dude as the greatest fitnah, trust so many girls I know seem to be dating or what not and they're all muslim! It's like this thing, when my mates and that turned 13/14 BOOM! Guys galore. Annoyingly they seemed to have given into temptation...

jazakIllah khair

honest answers like that are appreciated

and YES a rep shall indeed be given

Re.TiReD · Jan 30, 2009

Fighting4Iman said:
but looks like, by the replies, us men truelly are harmless.

Assalamu Alaikum

Only 2 of u posting in the thread.

Güven · Jan 30, 2009

WAIT .......so the biggest fitnah of men is women and the biggest fitnah of women is...*Cough*

ok the thread can be closed lol

IbnAbdulHakim · Jan 30, 2009

Amatul Wadud said:
Only 2 of u posting in the thread.

ok the reason i asked is

i wondered if materialism is a bigger fitnah for the women or not.

or perhaps smoething else im missing?

thats all

Assalamu Alaikum

Ali. · Jan 30, 2009

Fighting4Iman said:
ok the reason i asked is

i wondered if materialism is a bigger fitnah for the women or not.

or perhaps smoething else im missing?

thats all

Assalamu Alaikum

So don't close the thread after 15-20min's! Leave it open for a bit, may get some interesting answers.

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