- The Righteous Wife and Hubby -

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Bismillahir Ramaanir Raheem
AsSalamu 'Alaikum WaRahmatullahi WaBarakatuhu to My Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters in Islam

The Righteous Wife and Hubby

The Righteous Wife is one who will listen to her hubby
Who will not get offended by the things he says
Who will do as he tells her to
And who would never go against him
By disrespecting him
For he has been given authority over you women (Nisaa 4:34)

No doubt – And I agree –
That –Respect- and –Kindness-
Is a two-way thing
That a woman should be treated well and justly
That she gets all the love and care that she needs

I beg and this is my plea
To all my brothers out there
Whether all-ready hubbies or hubby-to-be
Do not get all so obedient towards your wives
For this will ruin you, your religion and your children
A woman’s heart can be poisonous
Her brain/mind works like venom
We women are and can be easily mislead, deceived
And tricked by the Shaytaan himself

Your are the main man
It’s you who wears the trouser in the house
You are and should be treated like kings
Hence – Why your wives should look after you
Listen and obey you at all times
Keep you happy and continuously smiling

It is our duty to look after your house
Work together in procreating righteous children
Teaching right and forbidding evil
Bring them up in the correct and right Islamic manner
For their righteousness, the children’s prayers will help the parents
When they die – Immensely –

It is you ‘O Men
Who hold the key to Jannah for the women
Do not let them push nor order you around
Stand firm man
And keep your feet on the ground

For if they disrespect you by disobeying you
Then beat them lightly
But avoid hitting the face
If this sick behaviour of theirs continues
Then boycott them in bed

Brothers in Islam
You’re the man – It’s you who’s in charge

Indeed evil is within women
So do not let this evil inside us [women] unleash
Help us by guiding us
And teach us about our Deen
For we too will be able to help you
Encourage you to do right
Encourage you to go for Jihad
-FiSabilillah-If you become lazy
We will be their to give you that push you need

Do not give us the opportunity to disobey you man
Do not ask – But tell us –
Order us and do not give Shaytaan to opportunity in misleading us

If we started disobeying you
And instead of you –Telling- us what to do
We started –Ordering- you
Then what the hell would the difference be between us and al-Kaafiroun?

We women got to make an effort in doing the right thing
Keeping our man happy
And trying our utmost best in not disappointing him

My dear sisters in Islam take heed
Even if you are not married
Then still study the –Righteous Wife- Topic
Acknowledge it
Because once married –Insha’Allahu Ta’aala- You will know what is expected from you

My dear brothers in Islam
Indeed you all must take heed too
Because when you marry your women
Then treat them good
Do not hit them pointlessly
Do not shout at them meaninglessly

Of course women’s rights is indeed an issue
And the man should treat his wife kindly and justly
Show her love and respect
Do not accuse them –Without Da’leel-
Do not abuse them

If they do something wrong
Then how about you give Na’seeha
Rather than going in for the kill
Rather than going in for that right jab to their fragile jaw
A kick to the guts

Marriage is not a boxing match

Women are indeed weak and subtle in comparison to you men
They are sensitive and fragile
So do not harm them in that violent way

If she were to open her mouth
Raise her voice at you and shout -Meaninglessly-Then tell her whose boss
Put her back in her place
If you have to then beat her lightly with a Miswak

But if she is in the right
And you are in the wrong
If she was just correcting you according to the Qur’an and Sunnah
If she was just giving you Da’wah
Then what right did you have to hit her?
Control your anger
Control your temper

Fear Allah (AzaWajal)
Before speaking and taking any action

Marriage has many goals and purposes
One of which is to procreate
To release those animal urges within you both
All in accordance to the Islamic Shari’ah
In the right blessed Halaal way

Look after your wives my brothers
Look after your husbands my sisters
Handle your marriage in accordance to the Islamic Shari’ah
Do your duties correctly
Strive hard to please Allah (AzaWajal)

And –Insha’Allahu Ta’aala- You will then be a righteous family
Your marriage will be successful

By: - Umm Musab al-Gharib -

WaSalamu 'Alaikum WaRahmatullahi WaBarakatuhu to My Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters in Islam