I see a lot of Muslim families ....lacking dheen in their life....in many familes one of husbamd/wife is dheeny...other half is the one create sufferings.....I dont want same situation happen to me....Girls who were dheeny is seen rare...i dont look or talk to girls so...whoever are dheeny i couldnt identify....those dheeny girls when marry....i see Mosques empty...when in town i see attractive hijabis....with makeup etc....so where are these pioys women...i see some dheeny womens who active in internet forums. ...i hope all muslim dheeny sister get dheeny husbands....i too want to...i once loved a girl...she rejected me and i got deppressed...i vow to marry dheeny handicapped person ...for dheen...will it make me sinless and Allah forgive me for such a charity.
You make sound pious women sound as rare as hen's teeth, lol. I know many wonderful sisters who strive to obey Allah swt in every aspect of their lives and would make a wonderful wife to whoever was fortunate enough to marry them.
Of course, as Muslims we don't have much interaction with the opposite sex - and it seems like what you have experienced has been off putting. But, as it says in the Qur'an, 'Good women are for good men' and vice versa, you will definitely find a pious and righteous spouse inshaAllah. Just make abundant dua, have patience and definitely ask for help through your mosque, community or family - they really do be a huge help in matters like this, as well as allowing you to go about things in a halal manner.
May Allah swt ease all of your affairs for you, ameen.
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