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    salaamz
    i dunno how many of u am in eduacation....but....if u am den u mite know
    wat i mean....
    im doin dis ICT course at college...........im finding it VERY hard
    i neva wanted 2 do ICT.......but my parents wanted me 2 do it.........n so
    i was kinda forced in2 it
    i've neva been gud at ICT!!! neva!! n i dont even lyk it dat much!!! :mad:
    i've got soooooooooooooooooooooooo much coursework on my hands
    its unbelieveable!!!!!!! :mad:
    above all dis i keep gettin da everyday lectures off my mum n dad....
    'u betta work' :rant: etc........am tryin as hard as i can..........but seriously i dont fink im gonna pass!!
    y do dey have 2 put so much pressure on me?!?!?! :mad:
    plzzzzzzzzz make dua 4 me aswell ppl........i need it
    n e 1 else in da same position??
    take care
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    thnx bro akhee......its nyc 2 know i got ppl hu are der 4 me.....
    nah i dont wanna stress ovas bout my work lol :X
    and thnx.........plz carry on makin dua 4 me....i seriously wanna pass!!

    format_quote Originally Posted by akhee View Post
    because our teacher never explained to us how to do the work at all and expected us to do it without explaining proper.. .
    yeh bro das how it is with me aswell!!!! das y am so confused....
    and if ask 4 help........he goes...'research it on da net'.....das jus stupid :angry3:

    oh and...
    thnx 'badmash' bro.......i hope ur rite inshallah i wish 2 pass!!!
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    Re: Parental Pressure



    Sis....wat would u LIKE to study?

    Allah ma3ik
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    Re: Parental Pressure

    i dunno really..............sumfi lyk business maybe......
    u know something dat dus involve ICT.......but for office based jobs......
    not all da stuff bout building your own computer....and system configuration n all dat........my lil brain cant undastand all dat complicated stuff lol
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    Re: Parental Pressure

    format_quote Originally Posted by nafy_luvz_u View Post
    i dunno really..............sumfi lyk business maybe......
    u know something dat dus involve ICT.......but for office based jobs......
    not all da stuff bout building your own computer....and system configuration n all dat........my lil brain cant undastand all dat complicated stuff lol

    Why dont u take busniness up then. Dont tell ur parents and so wen u sit ur exams and u pass (inshallah).....then they will see that u can achieve if u put ur heart into something that YOU enjoy.

    I would do wat I enjoy most if I were in ur shoes sis. No offence to ur parents by the way.....but I think u ought to put ur foot down a little and tell them who is the one studying!!!

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    Re: Parental Pressure

    lol........i get u sis no worriz
    but i ave already sed 2 dem dat im finding it extremely hard.....
    but dey sed jus stik 2 it.........so now if i fail.....im gonna blame dem lolz
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    Re: Parental Pressure

    format_quote Originally Posted by nafy_luvz_u View Post
    lol........i get u sis no worriz
    but i ave already sed 2 dem dat im finding it extremely hard.....
    but dey sed jus stik 2 it.........so now if i fail.....im gonna blame dem lolz

    Sis....u dont wat to fail. THAT will make u feel even more depressed and stressed. I suggest u do a crash course on business and if u feel that its def. wat u want......go for it. Shove i.c.t in the bin!!!!
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    Re: Parental Pressure

    asalamualykum warhmatulahi wabarakthu

    sis please don't get upset about this beacuse at the end of the day your parent's want what's best for YOU, not them but you. it's in thier job description to put pressure on you and to work hard. I know exactly what you are going through because my parents are the same, and i revise nearly every single day to make them happy, dad wants me to be a soilicitor insha Allah even though it's not appropiate for a muslim girl but what can we do?! If i talk to him about it he'll only disagree with me and shout at me so all you've got to do is put a brave face on and insha Allah Allah s.w.a will help you pass every exam whether it's worldy or for an islamic purpose ameen! :rose:

    and don't forget to smile beacuse Allah s.w.a loves you and it's sunnat!

    walakumasalaam warhmatulahi wabarakthu
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    Re: Parental Pressure

    [QUOTE=Proud ukht;106663][COLOR="Red"]asalamualykum warhmatulahi wabarakthu

    sis please don't get upset about this beacuse at the end of the day your parent's want what's best for YOU, not them but you.
    Sis....i so dont agree with this. If her parent knew wat was best for her....they wouldne be shoving her in the deep end. That is wat parents say to their kids. Its a load of rubbish if u ask me.
    No one should be forced to study something they wish not to!!

    Allah ma3akum

    p.s: Sorry, I heat up on topics like this. No offenec to anyone.
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    nah sis Ameeratul layl.........i cant change now i dont fink....im 2 far in2 da course......im jus gonna stik with it.......n jus pray i wont fail

    thnx sis proud ukht........ur rite....at da end of da day ma parents want da best for me........but i jus feel lyk crap wen i cant undastand a word bout ma work!!
    thnx 4 da duas...........inshallah u will beum successful aswell!!
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    format_quote Originally Posted by nafy_luvz_u View Post
    nah sis Ameeratul layl.........i cant change now i dont fink....im 2 far in2 da course......im jus gonna stik with it.......n jus pray i wont fail

    thnx sis proud ukht........ur rite....at da end of da day ma parents want da best for me........but i jus feel lyk crap wen i cant undastand a word bout ma work!!
    thnx 4 da duas...........inshallah u will beum successful aswell!!
    take care
    w/salaamz

    Sorry sis. I think I got a bit tooooo serious. Yes, they do love you! InshAllah u will pass ith flying colours.

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    Re: Parental Pressure

    its ok sis xxx
    thnx 4 da dua........inshallah u am rite
    i g2g college now........gr8..........not lol
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    format_quote Originally Posted by nafy_luvz_u View Post
    its ok sis xxx
    thnx 4 da dua........inshallah u am rite
    i g2g college now........gr8..........not lol
    take care
    w/salaamz

    Wuv u sis. Take care....Allah wuvs u very much!!!:rose: :rose:
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    awwww lol i ummmm.......'wuv' u 2 hehehe lolz
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