Seeing that there are quite a few marriage threads around, i'll add one...
What questions would you ask a potential partner?
This question has been on my mind for a while, and i know that it will depend on the persons but, on the whole which are questions that will help you get a better understanding of the person and his/her likes or dislikes?
Seeing that there are quite a few marriage threads around, i'll add one...
What questions would you ask a potential partner?
This question has been on my mind for a while, and i know that it will depend on the persons but, on the whole which are questions that will help you get a better understanding of the person and his/her likes or dislikes?
Ask him where he sees himself in 10 years time you'll know if the answers right.
ive been awake since 6:30 and i feel a bit giddy so bear with me LI!
All these serious questions are asked when youve known the person for a while and are comfortable with telling everything about yourself. Otherwise in the beginning its all giggling and looking down, and joking around and not getting to the point.
anyhow, what would i ask..............................................
i would ask most of the questions people have mentioned about deen/education/ likes/dislikes/habits.
Usually you cant get a word out when they just sit and stare at you and smile serenely, and you have to say could you please stop doing that man
Last edited by Sahabiyaat; 12-06-2008 at 10:12 AM.
My heart, so precious,
I won't trade for a hundred thousand souls.
Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
SubhanAllah, jazakAllah for your suggestions things went well Alhamdulilah. two questions I was asked took me by surprise so thought I'd add them here:
1/ Do you like swimming? ( I think this was mainly because he liked swimming I think)
2/ What are your bad habits? (was totally speechless to this so left it to my dad lol)
I have a few on my head that I know I'd ask..but they've been already mentioned in some form or another already..and some interesting ones too that I hadn't thought of before.
“Do not argue with your Lord on behalf of your soul, rather argue with your soul on behalf of your Lord.” - Dhul-Nun
"It is the very pursuit of happiness that thwarts happiness." - Victor Frankl
Number one lady, just tell me if you roll ur eyes, because i just cant stand women who roll their eyes, if you roll ur eyes just once, you aint gna have none to roll.You got that!
*someone will be staying single for a very very long time to come*
My heart, so precious,
I won't trade for a hundred thousand souls.
Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
Number one lady, just tell me if you roll ur eyes, because i just cant stand women who roll their eyes, if you roll ur eyes just once, you aint gna have none to roll.You got that!
*someone will be staying single for a very very long time to come*
if there's no prospect of finding a good muslimah with a pulchritudinous smile then staying single is the next best thing
and to ask a potential wife if she rolls her eyes is abt stupid....cus its natural for females to do it and so for me to hate it is trivial even though its alil annoying
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