This thread is to shed some light on modern families today...What are the modern families nessities..??? In order to raise a family in these days we must know the where when how and why of our lively aspects..

Its a New day, Times have changed
You may have heard that now days what people do differ from the olden days and that is what makes it acceptable.. First and foremost what changes from the ancient necessities of life to modern nessitiies...
First off what are necessities.???
Necessities are things you can not live without...Today you may see a person who says he cannot live with out his cheesecake but in ancient times people would survive without much food for days...Is this excuse valid?? Why would it change from time to time???

The food necessity
In life a man is require to have food and drink to survive.. Much foods have drinks already inside which makes consume allot easier... How has the modern world misuses these gifts from Allah to mankind?? How much food does one man need??
Well it is clear that people of many societies today over eat and waste much food products which leads to many health complications... What about our homes... What do parents allow inside their homes that could be hated by allah..?? It is not the fact of how much food we eat but what we are eating..

Quantity Vs Quality
Again i do not think that buying much food is wrong.. The question is WHAT ARE WE BUYING FOR ARE FAMILIES??
Are we even eating halal meals...This question can be answering by looking at many recent studies and knowing the quality of the foods and product we consume. Lets take a look at the modern family.. Many families buy fruit,vegetables,and various products.. Many of the products are ill produced... Altered for taste many products have INGREDIENTS that are harmful to our health states. If the Muslims do not study, take a look, and understand what they are consuming the families of today will ruin themselves.. Many products are artificially produced for taste not to survive.. Allot of what we are eating is not fulling us up which is causing us to be addicted to certain ingredients, causing us then to buy more of the product, consume more, and become more unhealthy. These are foods that are considered to be more harmful than illegal drugs themselves. Is this permissible for Muslim?? This DRUGGED effected consumption is a plague for many of the food administrations as well as for the waste of many beauty, and cosmetic clothing departments alike..

The Housing crises
No i am not talking about real estate, i am talking about the mortgages we take to buy our families big spacious homes....
It is indeed true that big homes are permissible for Muslims to enjoy like fine quality foods are permissible for Muslims to consume. It is unfortunately today not the fact that Muslims are building tall building but the fact of the HOW they are doing it for their families..
Is it a necessity for a Muslim to have a spacious house??? Not really no.. Some may use the excuse that it is but in mostly like 99.9% of the cases their is no excuse to purchase a big house in a wrongful manner....It is very very rare that a spacious house is necessary to survive..again very rare...Nowadays you see many Muslims purchasing big homes with no necessity and no means..it is not rare to see you local group of Muslims all using exceptions as generalizations most likely out of laziness. Many Muslims use the excuse that since it is too hard to find a non usurious loan in the giving land, it is permissible to take out loan or mortgages that practice riba to give their families a "better life".. is this acceptable?? Would that same family die living in a smaller place with lesser living conditions?? As i have said there are unusual cases that may dictate necessity but in this day and age one could rarely use the excuse to drink alcohol cause of starvation when that same person lives in a land filled with milk and honey.. The same is true for the many cases of families that live in lands where smaller homes are available that does not call for extravagence...There are other ways to survive being realisitic...

(Ie There is no source because this is my own thought..please do not delete this thread..it is from me, i am the source)