as girls, we tend to be more naive/sympathetic etc then brothers.
for eg, if a brother/guy asks a sister for her MSN/private details, just really randomly (or otherwise), how do you as brothers (i only say brothers because you would know the mentality of a guy, etc) advice for her to react.
i mean common sense would dictate to tell him to get lost, right? but some sisters are just genuinely naive and may fall into the wrong traps/make excuses excuses, such as he's ignorant, etc...
and no offense sisters
Last edited by Ummu Sufyaan; 01-05-2009 at 07:11 AM.
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
But of you do end up replying and saying no, dont let him convince you that he needs you to help him with something or that he wants to ask you a question.
Out of the gazillions of people on Allah's earth he could only find you to ask!? No Siree! He's going about things the wrong way and he needs to realise that he shouldnt randomly be talking to sisters. End of.
If something happens on this forum and a bro asks you through PM, link them to Bro Muhammad's profile [Or zAk's or Abu Sayyad's]
If you weren't comfortable giving that information out, just delete the message and don't reply back. If this is someone you've been chatting with and don't feel like giving it out, just simply say no. If he doesn't respect that, well then let him cry it off and find a new target
Just ignore those pms. Maybe you shouldn't make a mountain which is really a hole. I think you might be over exagerating, I think you made another thread and someone said make a thread regarding this matter in the sisters section and warn the sisters. Why post it here again when you get similar answers. Just pm a Adminstrator. end of matter and farewell for that member.
well, another situation, this brother might keep sending PMs if you dont reply.....so what to do
just throw this to him after the first PM " whenever a woman and a man stay alone in a place, Satan is the third " then if he said some stupid things like no I am pure.....blah blah.....report him to an Admin
because make sure that after you will give him your address, you will be added to his msn contact list sooner or later.....and being in msn, is the same as being alone physically
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and may fall into the wrong traps/make excuses excuses, such as he's ignorant, etc...
Well said and very practical..............
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