her money is my money innit so my money is her money, so basically if she buys a mansion with it that means its also my mansion.
so she putting me and herself into trouble with asking for that amount money.
...unless she buys a dress for 10k
Yeah if she's buying a dress then 10K isn't enough, a girl needs matching handbags, shoes and jewellery with that, and if you want her to look extra cute, you'll need to include hair accessories =D
...And maybe a cute lil puppy to carry around (but since that not allowed a siK car will do)
..We shall still..never be happy,
Mahr....extra mahr...no mahr...makes no difference, we be's grumpy ppls...PREPARE YOURSELVES..
Dun wana scare you akhi. So I'll stop here..
"Whoever lives amongst you will see much differing, so adhere to my Sunnah" Muhammad (صلّى الله عليه و سلم)
and what if I told u that there are girls ask for more than 50,000$...would u believe it? this is including the wedding party costs and everything else
well, I am not scaring anyone here, but unfortunately there are some extreme materialistic people in this world. and sometimes its not the girl who specified the money, but her family....and some families asked for a lot
Subhan allah as if this life is lasting forever
May allah grant everyone here with good wife/husband
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
calm down brother, those are not the majority.....many girls are looking for more important things than stupid money, but we just wanted to give u the whole picture of whats going on.
and what do the men get ? beside losing all your money
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
So married people, can you tell us what you think reasonable and practical mahr is? Sisters? Brothers?
In general, because I'm sure it's not right to ask for specifics..
And non married sisters, what would you ask for?
Brothers, what are you planning on giving?
To be honest, i dont want my mahr to be money or jewellery - never been interested in either of them. Inshallah if my future husband agrees I want him and I to go to umrah right after we get married so no fancy wedding just the nikkah. Inshallah that way our marriage will be blessed even more and who knows it might be the only time we can go pilgrimage as a couple.
So instead of paying the mahr, wedding and honeymoon we could use that money for umrah
Dear Allah. I pray that whoever reads this message shall have your comfort, joy, peace, love, & guidance. I may not know their troubles, but you do. Please keep protecting us. Ameen.
It's sad I've seen people spending almost 100k on a wedding night and the next day they can't even afford to pay their bills. What's the point? I really don't understand.
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^So I'll stop here..
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It's sad I've seen people spending almost 100k on a wedding night and the next day they can't even afford to pay their bills. What's the point? I really don't understand.
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