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Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

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    Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    lol bro its impossible to be closer to anyone more then your intimate partner

    because... well... you get intimate
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    wife ofcourse
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    I can go days w/o talking to my sibs. But I cannot go a day w/o talking to my husband. So the answer is obvious.
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    i could spend a day without both of them the nagging wife and the annoying siblings

    are you daft!!!! im joking about the former i'll be very close to her inshallah
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?



    The spouse is described in the Qur'an as 'clothing' for a reason..no one can be as close as her.
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    Well, that solves the problem. My bro got married months ago, and it seems like he's still newly married. I've gone days without talking to him, and it doesn't bother either of us. I thought maybe this is because we're not close or something. Guess I was wrong! It's just the natural love I suppose.

    Ah well. Wish I had more than one sibling at times.
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    ^ heh !

    wen my bro got married he still played something with me pretty much everyday. he just distributes his time

    when he plays with me - my sisters play with my sister in law
    and wen i play wiv others - he plays with his wife


    it all works out
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Fighting4Iman View Post
    ^ heh !

    wen my bro got married he still played something with me pretty much everyday. he just distributes his time

    when he plays with me - my sisters play with my sister in law
    and wen i play wiv others - he plays with his wife


    it all works out
    Hmm... Well, lucky you got more siblings, Masha'Allah.

    For me, it's different. Whenever he has time leftover, he somewhat comes to my room for a few minutes. Basically when he's out to uni, we talk on the phone maximum once a week. Sometimes when he goes we don't talk at all for weeks straight. And when he's home with us and his wife, we probably get a few minutes together a few times throughout the day.

    It's a bit different once your only sibling gets married.
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    whatever you do, don't get jealous of her, I know of many situations like this and the sister gets jealous that she's no longer the brothers centre of attention and begins disliking his wife and picking faults with her and causing problems. It's happening in my family, certain people are saying she's done black magic on him cos he doesn't care anymore at all about his blood siblings. It's all about his wife according to him, she got him wrapped round the fum.
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    My husband, of course! He is my partner, my confidente, my best friend... there is no one I would trust more than him.

    And, unfortunately, my brother and I don't get along very well... he doesn't seem to approve of many of my life choices.
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    why arent parents included in the poll? >_>
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?



    I know a very close between Husband and Wife. However, we have to think of other people's feeling, not only us in so much romantic, dinner, time alone, etc. As we know, husband and wife is 24/7. Yes, we do.

    I wouldn't ignore other member of family (brothers, sisters), I had a wonderful brothers, I had a great times playing with them, chatting, gaming, no complaining, etc since we were raised from the same parents.

    For parents, I love them, I would definitely be there for them and give support. Why? Because our real relationship with them in 30 or 40 years longer than someone you married recently. I wouldn't like to see them getting old, , make sure you don't miss valuable times as well as brothers/sisters.

    I defintely respect wife as wife respect husband. I would definitely gave support her family-in-law.
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    husband of course.

    i dont like the trend of how men and women married seem to be together fine but have this 'negativeness' against each other within their families. like the sisters may know all about the husbands/wifes short comings. not good
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Fighting4Iman View Post
    ^ heh !

    wen my bro got married he still played something with me pretty much everyday. he just distributes his time

    when he plays with me - my sisters play with my sister in law
    and wen i play wiv others - he plays with his wife


    it all works out
    wut?

    but it's ok ehafiz, your bro is all grown up now :_)
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?

    I would be closer to my wife I think.

    My brother and sister are annoying. >_>
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    My sons are closer to me than the breath that keeps me alive
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    Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?


    I'm the closest to NOBODY
    I love silence.I can't wait for my family to go somewhere and finally I'm alone!!!

    I used to be close to my friend but not anymore. I guess, you don't have nothing to share with anybody. There is iman which is a way of your life but everyone runs away from you. OMG, i think its ib forum...what a loser am I

    We're talking about people only?

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    My reflection. Forever and always.
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    how close will you be to your reflection from the mirror, like Queen Grimhilde forever and always?

    or where you referring to rasema's post
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