Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
wife ofcourse
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
Well, that solves the problem. My bro got married months ago, and it seems like he's still newly married. I've gone days without talking to him, and it doesn't bother either of us. I thought maybe this is because we're not close or something. Guess I was wrong! It's just the natural love I suppose.
Ah well. Wish I had more than one sibling at times.
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
format_quote Originally Posted by Fighting4Iman
^ heh !
wen my bro got married he still played something with me pretty much everyday. he just distributes his time
when he plays with me - my sisters play with my sister in law
and wen i play wiv others - he plays with his wife
it all works out
Hmm... Well, lucky you got more siblings, Masha'Allah.
For me, it's different. Whenever he has time leftover, he somewhat comes to my room for a few minutes. Basically when he's out to uni, we talk on the phone maximum once a week. Sometimes when he goes we don't talk at all for weeks straight. And when he's home with us and his wife, we probably get a few minutes together a few times throughout the day.
It's a bit different once your only sibling gets married.
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
whatever you do, don't get jealous of her, I know of many situations like this and the sister gets jealous that she's no longer the brothers centre of attention and begins disliking his wife and picking faults with her and causing problems. It's happening in my family, certain people are saying she's done black magic on him cos he doesn't care anymore at all about his blood siblings. It's all about his wife according to him, she got him wrapped round the fum.
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
I know a very close between Husband and Wife. However, we have to think of other people's feeling, not only us in so much romantic, dinner, time alone, etc. As we know, husband and wife is 24/7. Yes, we do.
I wouldn't ignore other member of family (brothers, sisters), I had a wonderful brothers, I had a great times playing with them, chatting, gaming, no complaining, etc since we were raised from the same parents.
For parents, I love them, I would definitely be there for them and give support. Why? Because our real relationship with them in 30 or 40 years longer than someone you married recently. I wouldn't like to see them getting old, , make sure you don't miss valuable times as well as brothers/sisters.
I defintely respect wife as wife respect husband. I would definitely gave support her family-in-law.
"When the Qur'an is read, Listen to it with attention, And hold your peace: That ye may receive Mercy" ~ 7:204
"Then do ye remember Me; I will remember You. Be grateful to Me, And reject not Faith. ~ 2:152
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
husband of course.
i dont like the trend of how men and women married seem to be together fine but have this 'negativeness' against each other within their families. like the sisters may know all about the husbands/wifes short comings. not good
Our Lord! Verily, we have heard the call of one calling to Faith: 'Believe in your Lord,' and we have believed.
Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and expiate from us our evil deeds, and make us die (in the state of righteousness) along with Al-Abrar
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
I would be closer to my wife I think.
My brother and sister are annoying. >_>
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
Re: Who are you closer to, or would you be closer to (if unmarried)?
I'm the closest to NOBODY
I love silence.I can't wait for my family to go somewhere and finally I'm alone!!!
I used to be close to my friend but not anymore. I guess, you don't have nothing to share with anybody. There is iman which is a way of your life but everyone runs away from you. OMG, i think its ib forum...what a loser am I
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