No one knows whats round the corner, they could be cured tomo or I could be disabled tomo, I get what Allah wills and its a done deal
No, they are disabled....
Yep, they are human too....
How many of us would marry a brother or sister that was religious, who had a physical disability which could affect them on a regular basis and may continue throughout their life?
Please give a reasoning behind the yes or no vote.
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No one knows whats round the corner, they could be cured tomo or I could be disabled tomo, I get what Allah wills and its a done deal
if shes amazing why not
if shes bad in religion of course not
the disability has nothing to do with out, deen/personality - thats all that matters
Last edited by IbnAbdulHakim; 09-25-2009 at 03:23 PM.
the range my scope will cover is most people, those disabled are also included i call them ''the potentials ''
i am no prince rather more like a quasimodo
however impious people are outside my scope
It depends on the person bro, if she is a brilliant person and has qualities i look for .. why not ? disability is just a inconvenience, it can be dealt with..
not funny :|if shes a cow of course not
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I dont know, I am not strong enough to have made that move, espeically if the disability affected the daily life.
I think it would mean more responsibility, unless I had a good communication with the person and they were religious, in that case, I may have married a disabled person regardlessof he above.
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Depends on what the disability is and where I am in life, whether I could handle that or not. Easy to say yes, but reality proves different.
Last edited by BlissfullyJaded; 09-25-2009 at 04:19 PM.
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depends what kinds of disability it is tbh. also it depends how much i felt i was able to bear with it, as people with some disabilities need 24/7 care, which may be a little too much for me to handle. so, for both our sakes, i may not go ahead with it.format_quote Originally Posted by dovelove
What would you say minor disability that someone who wear hearing aid? This person is only hearing loss, but religious, good personality, and responsible. I am myself hearing loss when I was fell down accidently at age 5.
It is due to some people discriminate hearing loss disability and afraid of married. Indeed, it is not big issues, and they need to understand clear misconception.
I would marry someone disabled as this does not bother me..I would look after him and care for him...my aunty is disabled she is still human,...we dont know whats round the corner...and what could happen to us.
Allah Knows Best!
I wouldn't mind marrying a disabled sister but id have to think about it if it was a type of disability where id have to care for like 24/7... i dont think anyone would like to be married out of pity
ye i think it depends on the disability if they cant fulfil the other persons rights then it would difficult.
If I were not married than.....
Well it depends, what type of disability he has, I had a proposal from a brother who was a Doctor and was slightly limp, and at that time I thought, it could have happened to anyone any time to anybody, so I was OK, with that proposal, but my family didn't accept that proposal..
So, our fate is all dependent of what Allaah SWT has already written, if you marry a healthy person what's the garunteed he/she will be healthy their whole life, or even i f you will be healthy your whole life.
So for me, I will perform Istekhara and will go with it ( obviously not too bad disabled...May Allaah SWT forgive me..)
No.
I've wondered if I must give my reasons, but decided against it.
If I was a sis and that brother had a disability which prevented him from providing for the family, then definate no
If it was a disabled sis, then still no, because if you yourself alhamdulillah have no disability then you will struggle for happiness with someone who is who isnt on your level, if you understand what I mean. And if there isnt happiness theres money involved, you will still have problems
right now alhamdulilah Allah gave us everything we need, but imagine wat if god forbid we get into an accident, loose legs, hands, n Allah took it all. Or soemthing else happens, wud we want someone to love us, be wit us, marry us? We all know the answer...
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it depends
queen grimhilde's ego is on song todayformat_quote Originally Posted by The Ruler
Allah knows what my answer would be in like 10 years or something but atm- no
i dont know..i guess it depends on a lot of things
Allahu a3lam
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