Im at the age that its essential that I get married. I want to marry.It's so hard to find someone.
My sister in Islam Aisha...is my bestest friend in the whole world..shes family to me.She thinks same as me.Well I've been wanting to ask her if her husband would be interested in a 2nd wife.I'm not sure if he find me attractive or not..hes only seen me once when he dropped her off at my house one time.Me and Aisha have talked about co-wives in general..we both are not opposed to it in general. I think her husband is very attractive,..he seem nice...and she is always happy..so he must treat her well...but I don't know how to go about asking? Should I ask her to ask him...or speak to them both in same room.
now if some silty trashy woman wants to still make up some fake reason like "omg he does not fulfill my rights, it's unbearable for me, i want a divorce" and get one, sure, Islam allows it, but Allah knows what the akhirah would be for some horrible woman like that.
i have posted enough here to educate others about your stupidity so my job here is done. good luck with your career as a doctor, which i am sure is a huge lie, i know of no doctors who have so much time during the day to be sitting on the internet arguing with strangers. i proved you wrong, now if you still don't want to accept it, your problem. anyone else reading this would clearly be able to see how wrong you were in what you said/did.
good job ignoring the part where i asked you for evidence by the way. i see you work extremely hard at learning lingo which you think will impress people on the net, but in reality there is no substance to anything you say and anyone with any sense can see through your foolishness and immaturity. you don't even have enough knowledge to back up your own innovated claims. i'm not here to interact with men, unlike you, so i will not respond to whatever that guy above posted. i sure can tear that to pieces just like your dumb posts though. but it's sad that you need someone to come save you and you can't even defend yourself properly. probably because you realize your verbal diarrhea makes no sense so of course you would never find anything to back you up, neither are you that educated in Islam that you would know anything to begin with. i suppose the rest of your posse isn't here, so you were lonely for a bit, don't worry they will all come later and try to help you out and then you can be like "yeah! what he said!" lol, what a joke.
joke of the year: my humble apologies for the typo.. unlike some I don't have all day to write meaningless essays on the forum!
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LOL. nice.
Assalaamu Alaaykum
I think its better if you do actually read what 'the guy above you said' insha'Allaah..
And I think we should be careful with the words we use, and also we need to respect one another insha'Allaah..
This goes for everyone insha'Allaah.
Also we shouldnt be so quick in judging one or creating doubt in our minds about what we think of another especially when we are mentioning it in public i.e. insulting someone or especially when we dont even know them in person, knowing nothing about them. It is the hate that makes us say such stuff, by Allaah if we cared for one another as we are suppose to we wouldnt be so quick in judgment. Lets realise that insulting someone causes one to feel hurt, this is something that should be taken seriously a reminder for myself aswell and everyone here insha'Allaah
When will we realise that, we should be careful of the words we use, the intentions we have? before its too late? when you will be judged for what you did and why you did it?!? I am only saying this because it is good for me and its good for everyone, not that i will recieve the deeds of another but me for myself only.
Like Brother Hamza said please Allaah and not the shaytaan. If we have no good to speak then remain silent or be patient and speak words of good rather than showing how 'good of a muslim' you are..or remain silent which is easy but some make it sound like it is difficult, it is not!..
And dear sister the aim of the posts is aimed at everyone reading this and not just you, so i apologise if it makes you think it is you because i quoted your post..I have no intention to offend nobody and please forgive me if so.. recite Bismillah and start over again or I would suggest Mods to close up..
.. peace ..
"Allah! La ilaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), Al-Hayyul-Qayyum (the Ever Living, the One Who sustains and protects all that exists).".."[Al Qur'aan 3:2]
here they come, the vale lily's posse. listen, save it for someone else. why don't you go say all that to her? she is ruder than i am. the doctor doesn't like a dose of her own medicine and her little friends come running.
My sister, you're showing your lack of sincerity by making this into a "I'm right you're wrong, I win hahaha" situation, you mentioned you could tear to pieces what I wrote above, is that all this is about to you? Imam shafi said "I never argued or debated with a person in order to win. I debated to learn the truth". Please contemplate on this statement. It's not about being right or wrong, it's about reaching the truth in any given matter.
A fool's mind is at the mercy of his tongue and a wise man's tongue is under the control of his mind.
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
pearl of wisdom, my didn't you quote the vale's lily ridiculous posts and tell her not to be rude and hurtful? this is what i had meant before about this ring of people and you all support each other and tell others they are wrong, even when they prove that they are right. you all have no sense left of what is right and what is wrong. you just support your friends, you don't open up your eyes and see that they can also be wrong. and in fact most of the regular posters on here ARE quite wrong a lot of the time and they never get reprimanded, and GOD FORBID if someone says something to THEM, everyone comes preaching and saying shut down the thread.
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