. Btw in England we have state benefits so I don't see how it's possible for a man to not be able to provide for his wife??
Sure he can't provide the lifestyle of a queen for his wife but he can provide food shelter and clothing, it's not like they're going to starve cos he hasn't got a job. So Idon't understand the "has to have a job to provide" argument
I know state benefits won't provide a life of luxury but enough to survive on till he gets a job.
Maybe you can explain, why in England, does a man need to have a job to marry when there's state benefits that take care of rent, food, and other costs? The only reason I can think of is, "it won't be a comfortable easy life on benefits where we can fill our bellies as much as we want" I can't think of any other reason of why.
I mean I have friends who are non practising and had relationships with girls then when they became practising they quickly got married because they realized they were sinning, they didn't withhold themselve from marriage because they didn't have a job, they got married and lived off benefits, the women they married understand that jobs are hard to come by atm, and there's no choice but to live off benefits until the husband lands that dream job if it ever comes.
So again, there are people providing for their wife's and family without jobs, because of state benefits, that come from the taxes that their fathers paid when they were working. If we were living somewhere that had no system to support people without jobs such then I would say fair enough you're right, but that's not the case here, the government provides financial support for anyone out of work so it's not like his family will starve cos he doesn't have a job. And there's times when married men lose their jobs, they get made redundant and they no longer have an income so they get paid benefits and use that money to support their wife, and they do that for months until they get another job, you see where I'm coming from yeh?? You know my uncle, he was working when he got married but after marriage he lost his job, for the last year he's supported his family off benefits so it is possible.
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