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Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

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    Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives? (OP)


    Assalamu-alaikum,

    Do most men personally desire multiple wives?



    This is not a question of whether polygamy is permissible for men or not (because it has been decreed by Allah, and it is), but rather -

    Do most men remain in monogous marriages only because they are limited by finances, a 'resistant' wife, time, etc.......?

    Is it possible for a man to remain satisfied with one wife, all his life?

    or are the carnal desires of some so large, that a single wife can never be enough?


    Hope to hear some honest views, insha Allah.



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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

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    I don't desire multiple wives... not yet. But Insha-Allah, I will... In 5 yrs. When I move to a third world country to save my imaan.

    And sister CosmicIntuition doesn't mind that, she will even help to pick my second wife insha-Allah. Keep us in your duas.

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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    I don't desire multiple wives... not yet. But Insha-Allah, I will... In 5 yrs. When I move to a third world country to save my imaan.

    And sister CosmicIntuition doesn't mind that, she will even help to pick my second wife insha-Allah. Keep us in your duas.

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    sorry for going off topic, bro did you finish that documentary on saudi materialism and hedonism in makkah? can you provide me the link.
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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

    Salaam bro, Your VMs are working (mod please delete)

    If it's the one on Feminism, then no - that one will get a release in the Summer (many episodes at once) ... if it is the Sacrifices Series, part two uploads this week - this series deals specifically with the eschatological analysis of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. Tough cookie to crack... But I cracked it, finally. Will jupdate you as soon as it is up bro.

    Thank you for the interest akhi

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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

    format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto View Post


    Let me laugh. When I was young two beautiful girls were compete for my attention. They really hate each other. Then what I did in this situation?. Dating with the third beautiful girl who they never heard before.

    I totally disagree that your life would easier if two or more women compete for your attention. But you will get headache because they will always jealous, then angry and interrogate you.

    I was familiar with situation when girls compete for me. This is why I do not want to be competed by the women again.
    uncle, i figure if theyre busy competing with each other you can very easily keep control over the whole house

    one day, tell wife one she is beautiful and tell wife 2 nothing
    the next day she will try really hard to dress up pretty. if you ask her why she did that she will tell you "no reason / i dont know what youre talking about"
    then you can casually comment about how wife 1 doesnt look as pretty as wife 2 that day. etc etc

    and so the tables have been turned. with our rationality and sense of balance, man can easily influence his control over the people of the house and keep life balanced for every1

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    I don't desire multiple wives... not yet. But Insha-Allah, I will... In 5 yrs. When I move to a third world country to save my imaan.

    Scimi
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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

    format_quote Originally Posted by tango92 View Post
    uncle, i figure if theyre busy competing with each other you can very easily keep control over the whole house

    one day, tell wife one she is beautiful and tell wife 2 nothing
    the next day she will try really hard to dress up pretty. if you ask her why she did that she will tell you "no reason / i dont know what youre talking about"
    then you can casually comment about how wife 1 doesnt look as pretty as wife 2 that day. etc etc

    and so the tables have been turned. with our rationality and sense of balance, man can easily influence his control over the people of the house and keep life balanced for every1
    That is a childish mentality.....
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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

    format_quote Originally Posted by TrueStranger View Post
    That is a childish mentality.....
    to each their own
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    Re: Do Most Men Desire Multiple Wives?

    If the woman wants to avoid ever being in a polygamous marriage due to the fact that she will not be able to accept it and will be greatly grieved and affected by it then she has the right to enter such an agreement in her Nikah agreement whereby if broken then she does not have to tolerate it. No one has the right to put down a woman who makes such a clause in her Nikah agreement for it is her right to do so and scholars have accepted that she has such a right.

    And Allah knows best in all matters
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