Assalamualaikum, sister Fer.jun
I remember a moment that happened long time ago when I was young. I got phone call from my ex-future wife. She told me that she wanted to meet me. So we met in the afternoon on a public place.
In our meeting she told me that she already accepted a man as her future husband, and she would get married. She started to talk about her new future husband, and then honestly she said she felt less comfortable with his character and personality. But I told her that she must try to understand and willing to accept her new future husband.
I could understand if she felt uncomfortable with her new future husband. In that time I heard from my friend that she felt hard to leave her memories with me, she always remember her sweet moments with me. And then she felt disappointed after she accepted another man as her new future husband because he could not treat her like I treated her.
But that's happened long time ago. Now I still hear news about her, and I hear now she lives happily with her husband and children. Alhamdulillah, I am happy to know it.
Okay, back to you, sis. Can you find another man who can treat you like your boyfriend treat you?. Can you find another man who can make you have a feeling same like your feeling to your boyfriend?. The answer is no, because every man is different. That's why you have to be willing to open your heart to accept someone new although he is different than your boyfriend. In halal way, of course. In marriage.
In the beginning indeed, you will feel hard to accept someone new who must be different than the old one. But with willingness, In Shaa Allah, the new love will arise in your heart and you will be happy with the new.
Yes, I suggest you to leave your boyfriend. I know that you still love him. But you must realize that he is now belong to someone else.
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