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What should someone do when they have difficult parents who emotionally abuse their children? I have a lot of problems with my parents, but I read that keep finding fault in someone is also bad
What do you mean by emotional abuse? Are your parents causing your children emotional distress in some way?
And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
I have a question about having trouble with parent(s), when someone is emotionally abused by one of their parents and suffers a lot from it. What should that person do, if he is suffering a lot from it? Obviously the parents care for their children, but some can be bad in their way of parenting.
And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
The simple answer is that Allah forgives whom He wills and Allah punishes whom He wills.
If someone is doing something wrong like this, and yes this does sound wrong, then Allah may decide to punish them in the Hereafter, and he may also decide to punish them in this world to try and reform them.
our parents do far more good for us, and have done so than any 'mistakes' they may make so if they say something that hurts you, do zikr and be patient; if it hurts you a lot, then turn to prayer and once you take into account their goodness [which is immeasurable against any 'mistakes' then you would learn to deal with it better and it shouldn't hurt you or at least that much
Last edited by AbdurRahman.; 03-15-2017 at 10:39 PM.
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