If a girl makes dua against me, will that dua be fulfilled? Please reply... (OP)
Hi everyone,
I am a Sunni Muslim and 28 yrs old guy. I had a romantic relationship (long-distance) with a girl for some months. She truly loved me a lot. I found her in Facebook.
Though I told her always that I loved her, but in reality my love wasn't that strong (or I was confused). I lied to her. After having relation for some months, I suddenly said to her that my parents may cause a problem about our marriage (This was false excuse). She felt extremely sad and she cried. She told me --"Then why did you continue our relation on the first place?? Why did you always say you would be marry me??? " She understood that I am a liar.
After that, I ignored her, avoided her for many many months (more than 2 years). During this 2 years, she called me so many times, sent me text and voice messages many times. But I ignored these. (During this 2 years, I called her 3-4 times and had a small chat).
She cried many times. But I didn't care about her. She already has understand that I am a fraud , liar and just wasted her time. She has understand that all the things I said (I will marry you, I truly love you etc) were all lie.
Now I realize that I shouldn't leave her 2 years ago. She really loved me and wanted to marry me, but I didn't care for her. Because of me, she cried a lot and her life got affected very very badly. I realize that I wronged her. She hates me because I broke her heart after having a intimate relation with her for some months. She has understand that I used her and threw her away.
Everyday I regret about what I have done. I am very guilty.
If she makes any bad Dua against me, will it be accepted?
Please reply .....
Re: If a girl makes dua against me, will that dua be fulfilled? Please reply...
format_quote Originally Posted by Robin677
I am trying to function normally.. but I failed every time.....I am feeling like emotionally paralyzed....
Focus on prayer, dua, worshiping Allah, know the ways of the prophets and how they lived, focus on helping boys who are in crisis who need strong male role models to take them away from darkness to light. That emotional paralyze will be cured, Insha'allah, and you will move on to been a better productive man to society.
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