What do you guys think of this solution? Since majority of marriage end up failure. Most wives want to wear the pants. Most times the fathers and husbands are nothing more than homer simpson as that is what women want their men to be. Men have no say or any input in raising their children. Most men are verbally and in some cases physically abused. it is simply not working. Since society agree that men are unnecessary or have no value in family, or raising a family,and the role of a husband or father is garbage, valueless, redundant and that women can be better than thousand men....why not have this form of marriage?
The women stay with their parents after mariage take in effect, the husband stays living in his own place or his parent(s). He have his toys and gadgets and where his live style is unchanged, and same for the wife. The wife can go and do whatever she wants (without asking husband for anything) and the husband same. When it comes to procreating, he visit her at at some hotel, they do the deed, she get pregnant, he send her money so that she can raise her children all by herself. He never see them again and if she wants to name them by herself, the husband have no say in naming then so be it. His job as a man is complete. Sperm and money. Eventually, when he wants to marry another wife and he reaches the four limit...he can divorce the first wife and mail her a letter say she is divorced. Problem solved. She can obtain her masculine trait that she is fighting for and she can proudly say she is the mother and father and that she does not need a man. Problem is solved.
We will proudly have a society of single mothers. There will be musics, songs, all glorifying mothers and we can live happily ever after. I rather have this over toxic family where hurls of abuse both physical and non-physical between two parties.
Last edited by xboxisdead; 01-10-2023 at 01:36 AM.
What do you guys think of this solution? Since majority of marriage end up failure. Most wives want to wear the pants. Most times the fathers and husbands are nothing more than homer simpson as that is what women want their men to be. Men have no say or any input in raising their children. Most men are verbally and in some cases physically abused. it is simply not working. Since society agree that men are unnecessary or have no value in family, or raising a family,and the role of a husband or father is garbage, valueless, redundant and that women can be better than thousand men....why not have this form of marriage?
The women stay with their parents after mariage take in effect, the husband stays living in his own place or his parent(s). He have his toys and gadgets and where his live style is unchanged, and same for the wife. The wife can go and do whatever she wants (without asking husband for anything) and the husband same. When it comes to procreating, he visit her at at some hotel, they do the deed, she get pregnant, he send her money so that she can raise her children all by herself. He never see them again and if she wants to name them by herself, the husband have no say in naming then so be it. His job as a man is complete. Sperm and money. Eventually, when he wants to marry another wife and he reaches the four limit...he can divorce the first wife and mail her a letter say she is divorced. Problem solved. She can obtain her masculine trait that she is fighting for and she can proudly say she is the mother and father and that she does not need a man. Problem is solved.
We will proudly have a society of single mothers. There will be musics, songs, all glorifying mothers and we can live happily ever after. I rather have this over toxic family where hurls of abuse both physical and non-physical between two parties.
Wa alaikum assalam,
The reason majority marriage fails is because of disobedience such as committing honor killing, hitting women(something which will cause her to bleed), mistreatment etc... So for a successful marriage, the man needs to be righteous Islamic commitment that that has strong economy upon which he can sustain her wife and which he should avoid the disobedience to Allah which I mentioned above. And just because Allah Said in Quran about wife beating, that doesn’t justify hitting which is haram coz it causes bleeding.
And as for women going to job or careers, they should abide by guidelines of Shariah of Allah which are the following:
1. No gender mixing.
2. No pornographic stuff.
3. Only in case of necessity.
4. No gambling
5. No removing the covering coz it protects the women’s beauty and honor.
6. No room and time for prayer
As for men and women wearing pants, there are strict rule for it. Such as for men, it is permissible as long as they are not in front of non-family women and as for women the ruling applies that she has to cover up so she won’t commit fitnah. From: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/6013...men-wear-pants.
According to it, women who want to go outside for entertainment and shopping, then they have to abide by guidelines of Shariah.
As for music in society, you just want to turn something from which Allah made it haram into halal exactly what Jewish and Christian scholars did with the revelations sent by Allah to them: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/5000/is-music-haram
So my advise for you is: avoid such questions cause it may lead to act of apostasy exactly how People of Book fall into it.
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