× Register Login What's New! Contact us

The month of Ramadhan [is that] in which was revealed the Qur'an, a guidance for the people and clear proofs of guidance and criterion. So whoever sights [the new moon of] the month, let him fast it; and whoever is ill or on a journey - then an equal number of other days. Allah intends for you ease and does not intend for you hardship and [wants] for you to complete the period and to glorify Allah for that [to] which He has guided you; and perhaps you will be grateful. [2:185]
Results 1 to 12 of 12
  1. #1
    Studentofdeed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    167
    Threads
    41
    Reputation
    468
    Rep Power
    5
    Likes (Given)
    18
    Likes (Received)
    48

    Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Report bad ads?

    I am been noticing this forum has been failing their Muslim brother and sisters. How many people come on here seeking advise from their fellow muslims. Instead I notice people are so quick to point out others faults and mistakes. Now these are human beings and they have rights. We all make mistakes but I promise you, it is a greater sin to push someone away from Islam and harm them and by putting them down. People in this forum need to know, if you have nothing good to say then remain silent. Allah will hold you accountable on the Day of Judgement. Why be on this forum if not to help your brothers and sisters if you are just going to lunge at their throat and make them feel horrible. We all sin, just because you may be better at hiding it or had a better upbringing doesnt give you entitlement to look down at others. Fear Allah is all I can say to those people

  2. Report bad ads?
  3. #2
    Eric H's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    uk
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Christianity
    Posts
    3,333
    Threads
    28
    Reputation
    49817
    Rep Power
    113
    Likes (Given)
    4148
    Likes (Received)
    2525

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Greetings and peace be with you Studentofdeed;

    I think scriptures are so much more powerful when we use them to try and change ourselves. As you say, we need encouragement and inspiration to help us through life.

    Thanks for sharing, blessings,

    Eric
    | Likes فصيح الياسين, manofIslam liked this post
    Disappointed by Islamicboard

    You will never look into the eyes of anyone who does not matter to God.

  4. #3
    Ahmed.'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Location
    London
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    169
    Threads
    3
    Reputation
    104
    Rep Power
    68
    Likes (Given)
    373
    Likes (Received)
    98

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    A Muslim should know better. You call yourself student of Deen and asking wether you've been faithful over a haram relationship as if such a relationship was halal

    Ok I might have been a bit harsh and judgemental so my apologies!
    | Likes manofIslam liked this post

  5. #4
    ZeeshanParvez's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2015
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    563
    Threads
    61
    Reputation
    1991
    Rep Power
    24
    Likes (Given)
    138
    Likes (Received)
    287

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Quote Originally Posted by Bhai View Post
    A Muslim should know better. You call yourself student of Deen and asking wether you've been faithful over a haram relationship as if such a relationship was halal

    Ok I might have been a bit harsh and judgemental so my apologies!
    Isn't it student of deed?

  6. Report bad ads?
  7. #5
    Ahmed.'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Location
    London
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    169
    Threads
    3
    Reputation
    104
    Rep Power
    68
    Likes (Given)
    373
    Likes (Received)
    98

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Quote Originally Posted by ZeeshanParvez View Post
    Isn't it student of deed?

    That doesn't make it any better, student of deed, I.e. 'amal; this makes him sound like an 'aalim

  8. #6
    Studentofdeed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    167
    Threads
    41
    Reputation
    468
    Rep Power
    5
    Likes (Given)
    18
    Likes (Received)
    48

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Everyone falls into sin. We have no right to judge anyone. Never make fun or criticize someone with a sin otherwise Allah SWT can afflict you with the same and you can end up committing the sin before you die. Admitting you were judgmental and laughing about it is just wrong. How many brothers and sisters come here for advice and we push them away with our judgements. I promise you, Allah will ask you about what you post as well. I never claimed to be an Alam. I am a sinner and we are all. I am trying to improve myself and sometimes I would like to ask questions so I can improve myself especially when I need someone else opinion. But Instead I come here to find people who give the impression they are sinless. Never criticize someone who is trying to get close to Allah. You do not know how many good deeds you may lose. Shame on this forum for condoning such actions
    | Likes Nájlá, manofIslam liked this post

  9. #7
    ZeeshanParvez's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2015
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    563
    Threads
    61
    Reputation
    1991
    Rep Power
    24
    Likes (Given)
    138
    Likes (Received)
    287

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Quote Originally Posted by Studentofdeed View Post
    Everyone falls into sin. We have no right to judge anyone. Never make fun or criticize someone with a sin otherwise Allah SWT can afflict you with the same and you can end up committing the sin before you die. Admitting you were judgmental and laughing about it is just wrong. How many brothers and sisters come here for advice and we push them away with our judgements. I promise you, Allah will ask you about what you post as well. I never claimed to be an Alam. I am a sinner and we are all. I am trying to improve myself and sometimes I would like to ask questions so I can improve myself especially when I need someone else opinion. But Instead I come here to find people who give the impression they are sinless. Never criticize someone who is trying to get close to Allah. You do not know how many good deeds you may lose. Shame on this forum for condoning such actions
    Forums are public. In the public you have all kinds of ppl.

    You can't blame a forum for ppl's actions. That is not rational.

    I really do not know what happened to you here so I cannot comment on what you are referring to.

    However, as a public platform, forums get all kinds of ppl.

    It is not rational to blame a forum for how ppl act neglecting all the good that exists on the forum.

  10. #8
    Student S's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    32
    Threads
    10
    Reputation
    5
    Rep Power
    1
    Likes (Given)
    17
    Likes (Received)
    5

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Yes i agree. I ask questions as i have no access to scholarls atm... but thats been ignored. I thought i will get much help instead i ask again n again to clarify things. But I didn’t get satisfactory answers or HOPEFUL statements.

    - - - Updated - - -

    I mean answers by only few members when there are much around with so much knowledge. May Allah give us Hidayah.
    | Likes Studentofdeed, manofIslam liked this post

  11. #9
    Studentofdeed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    167
    Threads
    41
    Reputation
    468
    Rep Power
    5
    Likes (Given)
    18
    Likes (Received)
    48

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Brother I know what you mean. It's unfortunate. But if you have questions, feel free to ask me
    | Likes manofIslam liked this post

  12. Report bad ads?
  13. #10
    Physicist's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2015
    Location
    Indonesia
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    188
    Threads
    12
    Reputation
    934
    Rep Power
    22
    Likes (Given)
    86
    Likes (Received)
    95

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Consider those who judge and offend others as people who also came here seeking for help, but even can't admit it.
    Will it be better if they stay quiet in the forum while making the same toward people around them? Or better to help them understand their mistakes?

  14. #11
    Saira Khan's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2019
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    110
    Threads
    8
    Reputation
    395
    Rep Power
    2
    Likes (Given)
    0
    Likes (Received)
    74

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Quote Originally Posted by Studentofdeed View Post
    I am been noticing this forum has been failing their Muslim brother and sisters. How many people come on here seeking advise from their fellow muslims. Instead I notice people are so quick to point out others faults and mistakes. Now these are human beings and they have rights. We all make mistakes but I promise you, it is a greater sin to push someone away from Islam and harm them and by putting them down. People in this forum need to know, if you have nothing good to say then remain silent. Allah will hold you accountable on the Day of Judgement. Why be on this forum if not to help your brothers and sisters if you are just going to lunge at their throat and make them feel horrible. We all sin, just because you may be better at hiding it or had a better upbringing doesnt give you entitlement to look down at others. Fear Allah is all I can say to those people
    The one putting any question might expect diversities of answers and should be prepared for that. This is a forum and every forum contains people with different mind set. All the people can't be same neither in their school of thoughts nor in their answering capabilities. The questioner should read all the answers and should go for the best one that appeals to his or her inner soul while the rest should be ignored. This is very wrong to think negative about any forum, but yes the people with knowledge should always come forward.
    Stay blessed.
    | Likes Eric H, DanEdge liked this post

  15. #12
    manofIslam's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2015
    Location
    Australia
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    42
    Threads
    1
    Reputation
    220
    Rep Power
    22
    Likes (Given)
    259
    Likes (Received)
    29

    Re: Disappointed by Islamicboard

    My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam,

    Yes: but there's no excuse for rudeness or arrogance, or for condemning or judgemental comments!! Don't forget that as Muslims we should never become smug or conceited! Allah (SWT) does not tolerated that sort of behaviour!!

    So we really should be trying very hard to be kind and helpful and loving towards our fellow Muslim Brothers and Sisters!

    So let's enjoy this well-run and well-organised Forum: it's certainly one of the best Forums I've seen.
    Disappointed by Islamicboard

    Allahu Akbar!


  16. Hide
Hey there! Disappointed by Islamicboard Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. Disappointed by Islamicboard
Sign Up

Similar Threads

  1. Disappointed husbands and happy shaikhs
    By Khalid Saifullah in forum Family & Society
    Replies: 11
    Last Post: 05-18-2016, 01:43 AM
  2. i am disappointed from my life...help..
    By syedasad557 in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 19
    Last Post: 04-02-2015, 12:05 AM
  3. So disappointed with life n depressed!!!
    By honey123 in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 07-05-2013, 07:37 AM
  4. I am literally shocked and disappointed
    By ILuvAllah in forum General
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 04-25-2012, 05:54 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
create