Bismilah! I hope u r reading this in the best of health and imaan!
I wanted to say der are somethings that are really annoying me on this forum(i believe I am not the only one bothered by this)
Here it goes, you know sometimes when a person openend a new thread, and has put some effort in. Let this be a joke, or a discorvery(he/she made) or just any comment.... I see that some people when they don't like the joke for example or dont like the comment or the topic, they say stuff which is not really nice... and i know those who do so, that u probally don't mean nothing bad with it! But it does come bad over to that thread opener!
For example a joke been told in the joke thread! People read it... if u dnt like it or u ddnt find it funny... then please dnt go and post.. 'it wasn't funny' or anything along these lines! keep ur not so positive comment to ur self Even if u ddnt find it funny, just drop a nice word, put a smile down! These are things that would make the thread opener happier, make him feel more confident!
SOOO PLEASE BROTHERS AND SISTERS!!! Keep this forum a happy place!! Put a smile down when ever u can! It does mean alot, it changes the whole complex of the writing !!..... Leave ur negative comments at home (obvsly when negative comments are due, then they have to be given!) Even then, try to PM that person so he/she is not told of in front of peope(which is not a nice thing)
InshAllah on this one, more smiles, more positive comments left More importantly less negative comments for things that don't deserve it!
A smile goes a mile
Have also more patient to our none muslim brothers and sisters! Sometimes it looks like a battlefield in here lol!
Quran - 16:125Invite (all) to the Way of thy Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious: for thy Lord knoweth best, who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance.
looooool nah dont garee wid da thread starter lol.. koz its lyk being fake... if i dnt lyk sumit or dint find it funy was the point of putin a smile or sayin yeh dat was kwl.. i mean was the point... and whoeva doz start the thread must keep in mind that he/she aint always gna get kwl coments or sumit.... nowt realy wrong wid a not nyc coment as far as thats wat yu fink looool.. if not then its lyk... ermmm telin a freak dat wernt freaky lol.. soz im realyyyyyy borrrrrrddddddd loooool
neway peace out and yeh (its not a fake one.. i am smilin 4 real.. lyk emm omg i jus memberd soulja boys smile.. its lyk wid all da teeth out lyk eeeeeeeee lol )
looooool nah dont garee wid da thread starter lol.. koz its lyk being fake... if i dnt lyk sumit or dint find it funy was the point of putin a smile or sayin yeh dat was kwl.. i mean was the point... and whoeva doz start the thread must keep in mind that he/she aint always gna get kwl coments or sumit.... nowt realy wrong wid a not nyc coment as far as thats wat yu fink looool.. if not then its lyk... ermmm telin a freak dat wernt freaky lol.. soz im realyyyyyy borrrrrrddddddd loooool
neway peace out and yeh (its not a fake one.. i am smilin 4 real.. lyk emm omg i jus memberd soulja boys smile.. its lyk wid all da teeth out lyk eeeeeeeee lol )
sis
Nooo, thats not the point i made. I said if the comment is not a worthy one or is negative and no one will benefit from it, then dnt make the comment(i ddnt say put a fake smile down lol )
I think both sides have a point and what is intended is not going to either extreme - i.e. don't offend the topic starter with a harsh remark, and don't force yourself/pretend to agree to something if that isn't the case. Take the middle path - be constructive, honest and respectful in your comments, and if you disagree, then there is a way of doing so without sounding rude, or at least it is less hurtful if you have made the effort not to sound rude.
And let us remember the famous hadeeth,
Abû Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alayhi wasallam) said:“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent... ” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim ]
And on the topic of smilies - it is best to restrict using them to when responding to the same gender, but when addressing a member of the opposite gender, we should remember to speak in a concise and decisive manner, not talking aimlessly with soft speech and laughter, as this may provoke fitnah. For further information, you may see this thread: http://www.islamicboard.com/manners-...uidelines.html
Nooo, thats not the point i made. I said if the comment is not a worthy one or is negative and no one will benefit from it, then dnt make the comment(i ddnt say put a fake smile down lol )
Slight misunderstanding.
w.slm
ohhh skeen.... soz abt d amisunderstandin bro... buh stil if i didnt lyk sumit or wateva.. i wud realy comment wateva i feel lol.. kz dats the way... neway peace
I agree with you bro Raonar, and Bro Muhammad that we should have a middle road..If you read something that's not funny just leave it or just pm them but if it's on a serious note and it's a discussion i would express my opinion but not be aggressive about it just lay down what i think and put the facts on the table so I think people need to read what this brother has put forth..Jazakallah Khair
“The believers in their mutual kindness, compassion and sympathy are just like one body. When one of the limbs is afflicted, the whole body responds to it with sleeplessness and fever”.
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Even if u ddnt find it funny, just drop a nice word, put a smile down! These are things that would make the thread opener happier, make him feel more confident!
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