where's the door out????????

**truemuslim** · 07-23-2008

ya you kno me.
i give up
i always will

allah isnt here. allah doesnt lissen. answer dua. nothing. well at least to me he doesnt.
Life sucks. everyone knows that.
when you are the problem in the center of everyones problems, and you didnt do anything...

now my mom wont talk to me, shes in yemen, i didnt do anything i swear. she thinks im like my evil dad. yah i dont care if its haram to say that. she wont talk to me, she wont answer the phone.
and i just once ONCE try to stand up for me and her, and i told my dad that they didnt do anything in yemen. and now he think me and her and my brothers are like some evil witches under some evil plan like he is always doing! he starts saying to me what me and her always talk about on the phone, i tell him, he says we are hiding something, we arent, now he wont talk to me either, he all throwing glass at me whenever he thinks im lying, he sits there cussing at me (and he yells at my brothers for cussing :mad: ) he sits there bein a stupid annoying lil shaitan....omggg...

allah ignores me. allah doesnt answer ANY dua i ask for.
allah doesnt help. allah doesnt forgive me.
nobody here to talk to. nobody to TRUST. like i always tell you
NOBODY , and somebody here said to trust allah...

well i say trust nobody but yourself.

you feel quran is not helping. istikhaarah seems fake :'( . allah seems liek he doesnt exist. your faith is GONE. Suicide is haram. Killing someone is also haram. Lying to parents is haram. not respecting parents is also haram. telling them everything causes problems, telling them Nothing causes problems, and sins.

nobody is there. and i mean it NOBODY.
where do you go? who do you trust?

nowhere. nobody.

but now your stuck. you cant take it.

nobody knows. nobody cares. nobody is there. nobody has a place for you. nobody..but YOU. and you isnt good enough.

:'(:'(

:mad::mad::mad:

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**IbnAbdulHakim** · 07-23-2008

^ not the "but his a prophet" excuse again *smack*

ok if you compare your ordeals to that of a prophets your one is NOTHING, so yeah he was a prophet and your not. HE HAD TO DEAL WITH MUCH MORE THEN YOU DO!

so now that we got things in perspective, realise that your reeeaaally over exagerrating, problems happen in life but we suppose to find strength to get through em !!

please please please read the lives of the prophets!!!! its aaalll over the place even on this forum!

aaand... CHILL OUT! i can feel your heat wave from your hot head aaaalll the way from there.

seriously, just sit down wiv a glass of water (If u can chill in your house then chill in the park) and just be CALM! think ! trust me, it'll get better

when things go down they come up, ia int being corny ITS TRUE! so relax, it'll get better !

**truemuslim** · 07-23-2008

yeh i kno , see the prophets had to go thru things because theyr prophets and ther goal was to spread islam and peace.
not me. im nothing compared to them.
yeh and right when i get that glass of water my dad wil tell me to call my mum an aall..and there ya go. i jus ended a phone call like two seconds ago, and my mum is so mad, and my dad is so annoyingly crazy. goddd. im glad my mum got to get away from him for once in her 18 horrible years of staying with him.

how do she deal wit him/>????

and dont say "trust me itll get better" because i cant trust nobody. and nothing does get better.

jazakallah khair

**------** · 07-23-2008

^ sik post mashaAllaah

**adam123** · 07-23-2008

From my experience, Allah helped me most when I turned to him whole-heartedly. I honestly believe that if you do the same, never ever doubting him, then he WILL make things easy for you, inshaAllah.

If you have doubt when turning to Allah, then OF COURSE your duas will be worthless!

That's why, when you make dua, you make it as though you are in front of Allah and that Allah is listening. DON'T just say words and believe that's all there is to it.[/QUOTE]

true............

i think alot of poeple think that they are the only ones with the problems but once they share their problems with others thats wen they realise that the whole world is drowned in problems....

some of them they share and find a salution (like you masha allah#~) and some just keeps it n their hearts and live with it.....

share your problem with some one and make it half share it with 3 and make it a third...

**truemuslim** · 07-24-2008

<---- first true smile in 5 monthes.

Jazakallah khair both of u
InshAllah i can be more "islamic" and all.
and showing a real example bro alpha, that actually is so ...em...i duno the word. u kno what i mean though

I will try and not give up , all that... yeh
ok jazakallah khair

**Na7lah** · 07-24-2008

Jazakallah khair both of u
InshAllah i can be more "islamic" and all.
and showing a real example bro alpha, that actually is so ...em...i duno the word. u kno what i mean though
I will try and not give up , all that... yeh
ok jazakallah khair

Alhamdulillah

espoir17ounewyv0 - where's the door out????????

^ cheer up and be happy
smile

**truemuslim** · 07-24-2008

ohh god i hate life.
and yes i m bearing with it.
boiling water splashed in my eye, burnt my skin, i have a huuuuuuge headache, i feel sickkk...which is bad because i will break my record of people knowing when i get sick!! five years and now it about to break. NOOOO!! we have a MIDNIGHT to pack all the luggage to go to yemen all because my dad sucks at listening to people and goes either his way or his way.
everyone is being annoying
im very very very very very very very very very... very angry.
i cannooooooooooooooooot take anger!!
but thank god i let it out in my tears instead of peoples blood.
and its freakin drivin me crazy i swear!!! i wanna kill someone, break something, do something, leave something, get ouuuuuuuuuutttttttttt!!!

ayat al kursi isnt working, non of that angel stuf isnt working. whyyy ya allah!

**PeaceSeeker** · 07-24-2008

Allah creates the solution first and then gives the problems, Alhamdulillah.
Shaitan challenged about the prophet Ayyub alaihiwasallam but he could not win no matter what the shaitan did. When there is love for Allah in heart Shaitan can never win over the person no matter how biggggggggggggg the problem is.
We should learn from the story of Ayyub alaihiwasallam.
Allah tests us to higher our status in heaven.
We will soon die, and this dunya and everything else with it is gonna vanish.
If u cant bear this tests of life then think how much worser than ur problem is hell, hell is not even comparable.
U want to let Shaitan win over you and let him take u to hell wid him or u want to be patient till the sun shines in ur life and expect heaven? The choice is yours...
I can only pray with my heart open and from the core of my heart I pray for u so that u can B patient at this harsh moment of your life and seek for only Allah's satisfaction.
Love you only for the sake of Allah.
Making dua so that your problems go away just like the dark clouds in the sky of your life and so that the golden linings (not silver) appears. Ameen

**M.I.A.** · 07-24-2008

you know enough to get you through this..

**Woodrow** · 07-24-2008

There is no out door.

People that seek one are already out. The secret is to find the in-door and walk through it and accept life as an adventure and a glorious opportunity to reach Jannah.

Think of life as being the space ship that will carry you to Jannah. The trials and tribulations are the passage fee. Stop complaining about the cost, gladly pay it, walk through the door and enjoy the trip as it carries you through life.

**Eric H** · 07-24-2008

Greetings and peace be with you truemuslim;

we have a MIDNIGHT to pack all the luggage to go to yemen

I hope you find some of the answers to life in Yeman.

Blessings and peace be with you.

Eric

**Eeman** · 07-24-2008

Originally Posted by truemuslim

ya you kno me.
i give up
i always will

allah isnt here. allah doesnt lissen. answer dua. nothing. well at least to me he doesnt.
Life sucks. everyone knows that.
when you are the problem in the center of everyones problems, and you didnt do anything...

now my mom wont talk to me, shes in yemen, i didnt do anything i swear. she thinks im like my evil dad. yah i dont care if its haram to say that. she wont talk to me, she wont answer the phone.
and i just once ONCE try to stand up for me and her, and i told my dad that they didnt do anything in yemen. and now he think me and her and my brothers are like some evil witches under some evil plan like he is always doing! he starts saying to me what me and her always talk about on the phone, i tell him, he says we are hiding something, we arent, now he wont talk to me either, he all throwing glass at me whenever he thinks im lying, he sits there cussing at me (and he yells at my brothers for cussing :mad: ) he sits there bein a stupid annoying lil shaitan....omggg...

allah ignores me. allah doesnt answer ANY dua i ask for.
allah doesnt help. allah doesnt forgive me.
nobody here to talk to. nobody to TRUST. like i always tell you
NOBODY , and somebody here said to trust allah...

well i say trust nobody but yourself.

you feel quran is not helping. istikhaarah seems fake :'( . allah seems liek he doesnt exist. your faith is GONE. Suicide is haram. Killing someone is also haram. Lying to parents is haram. not respecting parents is also haram. telling them everything causes problems, telling them Nothing causes problems, and sins.

nobody is there. and i mean it NOBODY.
where do you go? who do you trust?

nowhere. nobody.

but now your stuck. you cant take it.

nobody knows. nobody cares. nobody is there. nobody has a place for you. nobody..but YOU. and you isnt good enough.

:'(:'(

:mad::mad::mad:

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salam sister...
im sorry to say but wth that attitude of yours why would Allah swt answer your duas??????
Allah swt tells us in Hs own words that wheevr we supplicate to Him it wll be answered, of course Only He knows best and its always up to Hi when to answer, getting into despair and starting to make yourself think or believe that Allah swt is not there He doesn answer etc is all works of shaytaan cos your in fact insulting the Almighty in a way!!!

Have you wondered why patience is mentioned so many times in the Quran and why Alah swt tells us that He is with the patient ones and why its such a great attribute cos it brings you up in piety it is an attribute most likd and pleasing to Allah swt from His slaves, it shows gratitude and sincerety and most importantly frm belief from the slave, cos He knows and believes the words of the Almighty and asks and then puts all their trust in Him, and totally leaves it to Him Insha'Allah and Allah swt will deal with their affairs the best way possible cos only He knows best!!!!

Allah swt knows bes what i in the hearts of His slaves and only He is the Judge that will judge each soul in the most just way, but just something i want to mention here before anything as i said Allahu Alam and please sister do not take any offence.

i have read man of our threads on this forum and forgive if i am wrong but from what i have read i have noticed that at times you don know whether your coming or going regards religion, at times you have questioned the Quran and made many negative points as you have done also on this thread and i thought that maybe your imaan was slightly weak, hence the reason why your i despair so easily and give up, i suggest that you work on yourself first and strive hard to make your imaan strong cos onceyou achieve that then these matters will only be trivial to you, your trust in the Almighty will become so strong that you will know n your heart that through thick and very very thin no matter what He puts you through He is always there for you. once you have fim believe in His words then your heart will find rest, your despair will vanish and Insha'Allah everything will be fine, I'll make dua for you Insha'Allah i pray that Allah swt helps you in eac and every way and answers each and every dua of yours.

ma salama