Help Me Please

**dawg** · 08-07-2008

Hello everyone, this is my problem, all my family has brown eyes, exept me i was born with 1 brown eye and 1 blue eye, and I hate it, I wanna be normal like all people, anyways, my mom told me that there is 1 hour each day where Allah responds to all prayers, is that true? and if I keep praying all day to Allah to make both my eyes brown, would he really respond to my wish and make both my eyes are brown or what my mom told was wrong? sorry for my english.

**MaiCarInMtl** · 08-08-2008

Quite a few people have differently coloured eyes, granted, maybe not always with huge colour differences like blue/brown, but still. I dig the 2 coloured eye thing.

Like JolieFleur mentioned, rejoice! You aren't blind!

And anyone who ridicules you is obviously jealous or they are a little ignorant about the fact that God made us all unique/special in some way. Don't forget though, some people might like your eyes as they are and wouldn't want them any other way.

**qassy!** · 08-09-2008

Its genetic, its not changing, blue eyes nice :, marshallah Allah has blessed you.) blue and brown, ? just accept how ALlah made you.

**Sabbir_1** · 08-09-2008

If it's bothering you that much, get some contacts.

**bibleblevr** · 08-09-2008

I am christian and my understanding of prayer is that the bible says pray without ceasing. God loves the prayers of his children however the lord warns that we should not pray amiss. God made your eyes different to further his purpose. So long as you follow the creator's will that attribute of you will be used for him. to ask God to alter his perfect creation (you) you are not praying for the edification of God's kingdom but for your own vanity. Your body is temporary the things God will over shadow the things of man, when you are in God's will

**Ansariyah** · 08-09-2008

Say Alhamdulilah.

My bro has a bright green eye n a hazel/brown one. There is nothing wrong with 2 different eye colours. My brother finds it hard to look at the sunlight, he always looks down because his eye is a bit sensitive.

You shouldnt be upset, if people are making u sad, forget them. Remember that Allah created u, and he makes no mistakes..:sunny:

**dawg** · 08-09-2008

Thanks everybody for your time and advice, but the "forget about it, atleast you have eye sight" isn't working for me, i'm gonna sooner or later find a solution for this problem, anyways thanks for your advices and your time.

**piXie** · 08-09-2008

Originally Posted by dawg

Hello everyone, this is my problem, all my family has brown eyes, exept me i was born with 1 brown eye and 1 blue eye, and I hate it, I wanna be normal like all people, anyways, my mom told me that there is 1 hour each day where Allah responds to all prayers, is that true? and if I keep praying all day to Allah to make both my eyes brown, would he really respond to my wish and make both my eyes are brown or what my mom told was wrong? sorry for my english.

Assalamu 'alaykum everyone* It multiplies us in good deeds, spreads peace, n strengthens the bond of unity and brotherhood

When I was reading your post, I remembered Imam Bukhaari may Allaah be pleased with him. He was born blind and Allaah gave him sight because his mother, a very righteous and pious woman, prayed for him. Nothing is hard for Allaah, He is able to do all things.

see here:

The Best Times to Make Supplication

Invoke Allaah by His Blessed names, especially His names "The Ever-Living, n the Ever-Subsistent. It has been reported that if one invokes Allaah with these two attributes, He

always responds.

But lets bear in mind these very important reminders:

1. we must always be grateful to Allaah, for ungratefulness makes Allaah very angry. Be grateful with our tongues, and with our actions.

2. when we pray for anything which is to do with this life, we should always remember to pray for our hereafter along with it. Our hereafter should be given first priority, because it is forever. Whilst everything that we have been given in this life is only temporarily for a very short period. As a test for us.

Would you cry if someone gave u a coloured eye just for a day or an evening and said they'd give you a great and everlasting reward if you are patient?

Allaah says in the Qur'aan:

The Day they see it, (it will be) as if they had not tarried (in this world) except an afternoon or a morning. (An-Nazi'at 79:46)

Everyone has some ups and downs in their appearance. Some have really yellow teeth, n they just get their teeth whitened. Some have dark skin/pale skin and they make do with foundation. Some are very short, they make do with heels. To have a coloured eye is similar, its a very minor thing. The only reason why people might think its strange is because it is quite rare, thats all. But there is nothing abnormal about it. It's a small difference which can be overcome and amended by wearing lens. Therefore try not to worry too much abt this brother.

3. Strengthen our relationship with Allaah by remembering Him (Dhikr), seeking His forgiveness, learning about His attributes, avoiding that which is haraam, and fulfilling our obligatory duties.

By Allaah, If we do this, He will give us what we ask for insha'Allaah. Or, He will give us better.

And Allaah Alone grants success.

**dawg** · 08-09-2008

Originally Posted by piXie

Assalamu 'alaykum everyone* It multiplies us in good deeds, spreads peace, n strengthens the bond of unity and brotherhood

When I was reading your post, I remembered Imam Bukhaari may Allaah be pleased with him. He was born blind and Allaah gave him sight because his mother, a very righteous and pious woman, prayed for him. Nothing is hard for Allaah, He is able to do all things.

see here:

The Best Times to Make Supplication

Invoke Allaah by His Blessed names, especially His names "The Ever-Living, n the Ever-Subsistent. It has been reported that if one invokes Allaah with these two attributes, He

always responds.

But lets bear in mind these very important reminders:

1. we must always be grateful to Allaah, for ungratefulness makes Allaah very angry. Be grateful with our tongues, and with our actions.

2. when we pray for anything which is to do with this life, we should always remember to pray for our hereafter along with it. Our hereafter should be given first priority, because it is forever. Whilst everything that we have been given in this life is only temporarily for a very short period. As a test for us.

Would you cry if someone gave u a coloured eye just for a day or an evening and said they'd give you a great and everlasting reward if you are patient?

Allaah says in the Qur'aan:

The Day they see it, (it will be) as if they had not tarried (in this world) except an afternoon or a morning. (An-Nazi'at 79:46)

Everyone has some ups and downs in their appearance. Some have really yellow teeth, n they just get their teeth whitened. Some have dark skin/pale skin and they make do with foundation. Some are very short, they make do with heels. To have a coloured eye is similar, its a very minor thing. The only reason why people might think its strange is because it is quite rare, thats all. But there is nothing abnormal about it. It's a small difference which can be overcome and amended by wearing lens. Therefore try not to worry too much abt this brother.

3. Strengthen our relationship with Allaah by remembering Him (Dhikr), seeking His forgiveness, learning about His attributes, avoiding that which is haraam, and fulfilling our obligatory duties.

By Allaah, If we do this, He will give us what we ask for insha'Allaah. Or, He will give us better.

And Allaah Alone grants success.

Thanks brother for the precious advices that you gave me, their priceless, I took the time to read your post althought I can't respond with a big post likes yours because i'm not that good of a writer, my mom will be buying me lences soon, but contacts are torture, they're hard to put in and take out, I also wanted to know, why was I born like this when noone in my family has it? and when I get married and have children, will they be like me?

**Re.TiReD** · 08-10-2008

Originally Posted by dawg

and when I get married and have children, will they be like me?

^^ Akhee you're behaving as though you have a disease or something, SubhanAllah.....

Its entirely possible but its sad to see you fret about it. Be content with Qadr bro

**Ansariyah** · 08-10-2008

Originally Posted by dawg

Thanks brother for the precious advices that you gave me, their priceless, I took the time to read your post althought I can't respond with a big post likes yours because i'm not that good of a writer, my mom will be buying me lences soon, but contacts are torture, they're hard to put in and take out, I also wanted to know, why was I born like this when noone in my family has it? and when I get married and have children, will they be like me?

Be happy wit what Allah gave u, cause Allah makes no mistakes.
And dont Question things so much, relax n take it easy bro. Wat u complaining about exactly? That Allah gave u the chance to be unique?

Imagine if u had 2 brown eyes, but couldnt see NOTHING n u were blind. believe me u wud not be making this thread right now...You wud be in darkness wondering whats it like to see the light of day!

I can imagine that people comment on ur eyes alot, maybe thas why u feel this way, but pls try not to pay attention to wat they say. Believe me, most people wud love to have ur eyes..so ignore them. People hate what they cant have n be.