KUANTAN: She tried to get the consent of the woman her husband wanted as a second wife. But the woman was already married.
The husband got angry because of her failure to get the woman’s approval and beat her up. He also threatened her with a parang (machete) and tried to shoot her.
Fearing for her safety, the 60-year-old woman ran to her son’s house nearby in Pancing before lodging a police report.
State CID deputy chief Supt Mohd Haris Daud said the woman was asked by her husband, aged 57, to seek the consent of the other woman, in her 30s, to be his second wife on Oct 24.
“The woman did so and went to the other woman’s house but found out that she was already married. She returned home and informed her husband, who became agitated and started to assault her and threatened to chop her with a parang,” he said.
Supt Mohd Haris said the man, who is a security guard and Rela member, threatened to shoot her with a shotgun if she failed to get the woman’s approval.
He said a suspect has been detained to assist in the investigation.
“The case is being investigated for criminal intimidation,” he said.
i dont think hittin ur wife is allowed even if there is no bruises!!! if we r allowed to hit women then they r allowed to hit back. works both ways. does any 1 know if our prophet mohammed PBUH ever hit any of his wifes?????
[start sarcasm]ooh don't say that, we are not allowed to unless we can first get seal of approval from someone approved by al saud e.g Munajjid[/end sarcasm]
saying correct things here is like trying to light up a dark wind tunnel with a candle
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format_quote Originally Posted by mohammed_alim
u guys were rite thanx i looked it up myself....
there you go, now you too have been "blessed" by the light spread here by sixten school of sharia
I still think if my other half raised his hand to me I would be gone like a shot, he wouldnt raise his hand to me anyway but if he did, I would walk straight out on him. and like someone said before, If a man hits a woman then she has a right to hit him back, its self defence.
conclusion,
I would not stand for it, thats not me rebelling against anything but unfairness.
i dnt no wat u mean?? i wud never ever hit my wife bcos she no's wat makes me happy n wat dont and i no same abt her. we av an understanding between us. if there is ever any problems we talk it over n sort it out.
[start sarcasm]ooh don't say that, we are not allowed to unless we can first get seal of approval from someone approved by al saud e.g Munajjid[/end sarcasm]
saying correct things here is like trying to light up a dark wind tunnel with a candle
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there you go, now you too have been "blessed" by the light spread here by sixten school of sharia
Someone looks like they want to get warned. If you had any common sense, you would know its not my opinion, but that of a huge consensus of muslim scholars. Don't hit your head on the way out of this thread.
Someone looks like they want to get warned. If you had any common sense, you would know its not my opinion, but that of a huge consensus of muslim scholars. Don't hit your head on the way out of this thread.
no doubt the same scholars who taught you that descent from ape is possible and breeding of pigs and leather from pigskin is technically halal?
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
Looks like you fail to understand anything (evident from previous neg reps you have given me).
And, who said anything about pigskin? You are going to be added to my ignore list, you are just a waste of time.
following quote might ring a bell
format_quote Originally Posted by SixTen
format_quote Originally Posted by The Khan
I've come across pictures of hijabi Malay girls posing with pigs. I wonder what was the meaning of that, lol. As far as I understand, Allah (SWT) has created every creature for a purpose. He has forbidden us from eating pork, that's all. So, what's wrong with working in a pig farm? I haven't come accross any aya stating that it's forbidden to own pigs for any purpose apart from eating them. I mean, pigs are a good source of leather, after all.
Intolerance. Pure intolerance.
Although you have some technical valid points - the problem is - the intent of those farms, that is, sell off pork for people to eat - albeit them being non-muslim.
This itself is not allowed, as is, you can't sell alcohol to non-muslims.
the older these men get, the more wives they want.
If my husband wanted to remarry at that age and after so many yrears of being together, it would cause me hurt beyond words, but i would let him, and that would be the end of our relationship.Id live with him, clean up after him, cook his food, to seek reward from Allah, but i could never even smile at him again, let alone show any love.
Women have to endure so much, ...this poor poor woman, first the hurt of him requesting a second wife at that age!...then the humiliation of actually being forced to go ask for her hand for her own husband!....and then being beaten up for something beyond her control....
Can some brother tell me why you men are like this?
My heart, so precious,
I won't trade for a hundred thousand souls.
Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
arghhhhhhh i wanna shoot this stupid man :enough!:
Three simple rules in life:
1) If you do not go after what you want, you will never have it
2) If you don't ask, the answer will always be no.
3) If you do not step forward, you'll always be in the same place
reading about incidents like this really makes me lose hope in people....It takes so much for me to convince myself that there are good people out there, but things like this, make me lose all hope in an instant....its just so sad isnt it.
My heart, so precious,
I won't trade for a hundred thousand souls.
Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
reading about incidents like this really makes me lose hope in people....It takes so much for me to convince myself that there are good people out there, but things like this, make me lose all hope in an instant....its just so sad isnt it.
think of ten people who you know are better then you who exist today
that should help you restore your faith in people
if you cant do that, then... lol you got superiority issues
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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i know....just makes me sick, these incidents do.
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