how do you get through a stubborn person, who the more you ask them for something you need... i mean you really need this thing, and the only way to get it is through them...but the more you ask and persist, the more they become stubborn...
what do you do
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
" Its sometimes better people don't get to know you..
Cuz the more they know you, the less they understand & accept you..
Alone is better, what say " - SRK
if it is a child...usually love and persistance in that love as well as getting on their side works
an adult... its harder... stubborness could be a part of the character and that is always a challenge... I think people should make him/her aware that this is not a good quality to possess as an adult. They should feel the consequence of what they do...usually that is the best remedy.
...I wonder at the one who extends his right hand
To his beloved at the time of seperation and he hastens therein!
I felt weak and incapable of saying farewell when I saw him
So my heart shook his hand whilst my eye wept....
what I did with such people is keep being so persistent with them even if they increase their persistence until they gave up
but what if they get the kicks out of it, an don't take you seriously...
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Bribe them wiv cookies... Does the trick...
nope that wont work ...but if i can be patient enough, i may find that a situation may arrive where they come to ME for help, but i dont help them until they help me...:blind:
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
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Does the trick...
*Muhahaha*
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...but if i can be patient enough, i may find that a situation may arrive where they come to ME for help, but i dont help them until they help me...:blind:
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