Clean home, Mean People, Dirty home, Nice people...

**Ansariyah** · 12-11-2008

Please vote, n give reasons why.

If u had to stay with some relatives temporary.

Wat home wud u stay at? The clean one with mean people init, or the Dirty one with really super sweet people? n why?

**Snowflake** · 12-12-2008

I'd go armed with naseehah/dawah and stay with the mean people so that I can help them change

**Ummu Sufyaan** · 12-13-2008

Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud

Sweet people, I'd help em clean their house insha'Allah.

WassalamuAlaykum

P.S I say this because sometimes the nicest of people can make any place bearable. I wouldnt be able to deal with mean/nasty people no matter how nice their house.

yh agreed...
if they're nice, they wouldnt mind you takin out a mop, and mopping the floors

**Danah** · 12-13-2008

I will keep cleaning in a dirty home just to keep staying with nice people

I think staying at 5 stars house with mean people is like staying in the hell

for me, the inside comfort is more than the luxury

**Danah** · 12-13-2008

sorry double post

**Soulja Girl** · 12-13-2008

Erm... You don't necessarily have to be mean to be clean...

**Olive** · 12-13-2008

Staying with nice people will make any place nice, no matter how dirty it is.

**Re.TiReD** · 12-13-2008

AssalamuAlaykum

Get a girl from the clean house to marry a dude from the nice people house.

Then they'll be tidy and nice, what more could one ask for?

WassalamuAlaykum

**Faith.** · 12-13-2008

But she'd be raised to be a meany...Lol..
But nice match ..lol

**Re.TiReD** · 12-13-2008

Originally Posted by XxFaithxX

But she'd be raised to be a meany...Lol..
But nice match ..lol

Noo the niceness from the father and cleanliness from the mother dudeee

lol

**Faith.** · 12-13-2008

^lol

....Dudettte

**highway_trekker** · 12-13-2008

Who knows??

**Najm** · 12-13-2008

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

What if the nice people are too nice??? Wouldn't you take advantage of them ?....like take advantage of them, and make them do things you want.:enough!:

I still stick by my choice....a clean home will always turn out to be a sweet home

FiAmaaniAllah

**Faith.** · 12-13-2008

I wouldn't take advantage...Id be abl to relax with them!
on the other hand Id mess and play pranks with the mean folk..

**Snowflake** · 12-13-2008

Dirty houses are suffocating.. how could anyone wanna live in one of those.? And living with nice people means just making your own life easy. But imagine living amongst mean people and influencing them with your good islamic conduct? It could help generations and you get endless reward for it. Even if they don't change you'll still have pleased Allah and gotten rewarded for your intentions. I suddenly wanna go to the meanies house right now!

**The Ruler** · 12-14-2008

I'd prefer the clean house. The people don't matter. And even if they're horrible, horrible relatives are more fun than nice ones. They're adventurous.

**smile** · 12-15-2008

i'll clean the place myself
i don't lyk mean ppl

**BlissfullyJaded** · 12-17-2008

Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud

Noo the niceness from the father and cleanliness from the mother dudeee

lol

What if the kid gets meanness from the mother and messiness from the father?

Ahh I couldn't help sayin that.

**Yanal** · 12-17-2008

My house us dirty do you can call me good kid (actually I prefer only good because I'm not a kid)

**Woodrow** · 12-17-2008

At first look this appears to be a Hobson's choice. In other words both choices are equally bad.

The problem can only be resolved by determining which house you can pray in. It is obvious that if the nice peoples house is as nasty as it sounds it would not be suitable to pray in. Now the question comes with the mean people. They may hinder the prayers, yet it should be possible to find a clean secretive place to pray in private. So although the mean people house may be uncomfortable and a challenge, I feel it would be the best choice as it would be the least likely to prevent you from praying.