Firstly, this is a no debate zone. If any anti-islamists overtake, i’ll show you what a bad side is all about!
Amma ba3ad (to proceed):
I am trying to figure out something.
In the verse it says that men are allowed to “hit” their wives in order to discipline them.
from the brothers, I want to know- what if it were the other way around and the girl had the authority to hit you? What affect would that have on you?
Forget your ego for a second, I mean in your nature, how would a man react to that? Would he become even more stubborn, or
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
I'd do everything in my power to prevent her from ever wanting to hit me (make her waffles in the morning, tell her she looks thin even though she looks fat, clean the toilet after I use it etc). Do you know how embarassing it is for a girl to hit a boy? It's like getting a cooty-shot in the shape of a fist with enough power to make your bladder burst.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
I will feel terrible especially if it's around my parents and/or relatives. I will mostly do the same as brother aamirsaab like making parathas and changing the babies diaper.... It's really embarassing,if we get slap we stand where we are but on the other hand if we slap girls they cry and run away...
Im pretty sure sister Umm ul-Shaheed is knowledgable,and know the reason behind th question.Im sure theres wisdom behind it so brothers please answer the question in a mature manner InshALLAH
answer away!
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
Maybe sisters can give opinions if their husbands slap you.
seriously?
ok it depends. on why and how.
The ayah does not give green light to men to beat their wives ever. or even to use in light stuff. there are guidelines and it is only the last resort.
so possible reaction, to be honest Allah knows best:blind:
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all i can say is, youll see when you get married
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