Advice: give charity in secret.

Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "The acts of righteousness and virtue save a man from the adverse consequences of the wicked acts. The charity that is given unobtrusively cools down Allah's anger, and kindness to kinsmen increases a man's age."

(Tibrani)

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