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    people today are getting in relationships to be perverted and mostly they are doing sex before marriage, but even if you are married, you still are doing perverted things.

    doesn't it seem hypocritical that we are against perverted things and yet people that are in relationships whether if its a halal relationship or haraam relationship are doing perverted things?

    being perverted is haraam, period.

    Why did Allah make perversion ok for marriage though?

    so basically its ok to be perverted with someone you marry? but perversion is wrong and lewd.

    i don't not want to be perverted and lewd to my wife, thats just wrong.

    if sex is natural then why is it censored and tabooed.

    im not trolling, i am just asking these questions to get a clear answer. it may be stupid to some of you people but i just want to know these things more clearly.
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    Re: relationships are wrong in a different sense

    format_quote Originally Posted by Halcyon View Post
    what is perverted?
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    Re: relationships are wrong in a different sense

    Why do we have sexual desires?

    Why did Allah give us this?
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    Re: relationships are wrong in a different sense

    format_quote Originally Posted by halcyon View Post
    to enjoy sex with our wives. If done for intention of pleasing allah, sex with wives is a matter of worship.
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    Re: relationships are wrong in a different sense

    So we can continue the human race, If allah swt didnt give us this we would die out

    a question i ask is not why, but why is it so strong this desire , But i dont want to Questio Allah swt wisdom, as there is always wisdom behind Allah swt commandments
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    Re: relationships are wrong in a different sense

    why does our sexual desire have to be strong though?, why couldn't it be just normal and not addicting?

    another thing, why does sex before marriage have to be haraam? i mean come on though, Allah is the witness, why couldn't me and the girl just say a few words from the quran or something? Why do we need human witnesses though to get married?
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    Re: relationships are wrong in a different sense

    format_quote Originally Posted by Abdullahii View Post
    Why are you ignoring my thread?
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