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    One of our brothers here has mentioned on a number of occasions how helpful members here have been with regards to the ongoing problems he has been and is facing and has posted about here. However, all the people who have gone out of their way to reach out to him, or help him, have been sisters. Where are the brothers? Why can't brothers go out of their way to be there for their brother in his times of need in the same way?
    Where are the brothers for their brothers?


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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    I think women are more helpfull in nature, and respond better to people who need help.
    As to where they are, no idea sleeping, on the ps4 ?
    But I guess now youv called them out they will suddenly appear here now Where are the brothers for their brothers?
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    Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    Narrated Jubair ibn Mut’im: The Messenger of Allah (S.A.W), said: "He is not one us who calls for `Asabiyah, (nationalism/tribalism) or who fights for `Asabiyah or who dies for `Asabiyah." [Sunan Abu Dawud (Vol. 2, pg. 753) No. 5121]
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    Sisters are more caring, affectionate, understanding by nature I guess.

    Brothers we need to rise up!
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by muslimah_B View Post
    As to where they are, no idea sleeping, on the ps4 ?
    More like bread winning .
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by farhan View Post
    More like bread winning .
    *ahem ahem* Women go to work too you know!
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by farhan View Post
    More like bread winning .
    Im sorry but we (all sisters) know you mean sitting on the couch eating your "winning bread" sandwiches
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    Narrated Jubair ibn Mut’im: The Messenger of Allah (S.A.W), said: "He is not one us who calls for `Asabiyah, (nationalism/tribalism) or who fights for `Asabiyah or who dies for `Asabiyah." [Sunan Abu Dawud (Vol. 2, pg. 753) No. 5121]
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    I think that women have been grown with empathy and this is common in every cultures. Taking care of others is one of the most common characteristics that women hoped to have. How much of kind of feature is congenital and much is learned, is the other thing.
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    Women are more in contact with their emotions. As for men, they are more on their minds. I think.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    I think it's widely accepted that women (mothers) are generally more caring, compassionate, understanding and tolerant and the man (father) is stronger, resilient and have greater control over their emotions. I think this is why in the west when a husband and wife divorce, the child automatically, by default, goes to the mother. Unless of course there are extenuating circumstances.

    Generally speaking women are more suited to raising the child then men. This of course does not mean that there are some incredible fathers out there and some terrible mothers.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Serinity View Post


    Women are more in contact with their emotions. As for men, they are more on their minds. I think.
    Yep. Perhaps this is why a lot of the politicians, generals, leaders etc are men. They're just better at critical thinking.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    Yep. Perhaps this is why a lot of the politicians, generals, leaders etc are men. They're just better at critical thinking.
    This is why the leader position is for the males.

    That is how Allah SWT created us. All the prophets AS are males, as they needed be.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Serinity View Post
    This is why the leader position is for the males.

    That is how Allah SWT created us. All the prophets AS are males, as they needed be.
    Grrr Women can lead also but generally speaking, men are better decision makers.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    Grrr Women can lead also but generally speaking, men are better decision makers.
    It'd be a disaster for women to be a leader. And there is a hadith where The Prophet SAW said that the nation who appoints a woman as their leader, they'll never prosper.

    Leadership is man's field.

    And Allah SWT knows best.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Serinity View Post
    It'd be a disaster for women to be a leader. And there is a hadith where The Prophet SAW said that the nation who appoints a woman as their leader, they'll never prosper.

    Leadership is man's field.

    And Allah SWT knows best.
    Margaret Thatcher was one of the best prime ministers the UK ever had. She pulled the UK out of a never ending spiral of coal mining. She made the toughest decisions and she did so with courage and conviction. The British Empire (largest in the world) was ruled in part by Queens, mostly kings but also Queens.

    Woman can lead and it's been proven.

    Anyway when I have a family I'll be the leader, ain't no man telling me what to do
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    Margaret Thatcher was one of the best prime ministers the UK ever had. She pulled the UK out of a never ending spiral of coal mining. She made the toughest decisions and she did so with courage and conviction. The British Empire (largest in the world) was ruled in part by Queens, mostly kings but also Queens.

    Woman can lead and it's been proven.

    Anyway when I have a family I'll be the leader, ain't no man telling me what to do
    But a nation that appoints a woman as their leader won't prosper.

    It is in a hadith.

    for men to take the duties of women, and women the duties of man, in such a way, the women become masculine and men feminine. Would be a disaster.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Serinity View Post
    But a nation that appoints a woman as their leader won't prosper.

    It is in a hadith.

    It'd be very disgusting for the men and the women to switch roles.
    I just told you Margaret Thatcher was a prime minister which means she was appointed and she rescued the UK from uncontrollable debt and a crumbling economy. I'd the the UK is pretty well off lol. We have prospered very much. She also lead the Falklands war which was a decisive victory for the UK... The hadith you're talking about, is it even authentic? Or one you just stumbled across on Google?

    As for switching roles, some women just don't like men being in charge... If my husband tried bossing me around he'd get a serious wake up call
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    Are we not going a little bit off-topic?
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by EgyptPrincess View Post
    I just told you Margaret Thatcher was a prime minister which means she was appointed and she rescued the UK from uncontrollable debt and a crumbling economy. I'd the the UK is pretty well off lol. We have prospered very much. She also lead the Falklands war which was a decisive victory for the UK... The hadith you're talking about, is it even authentic? Or one you just stumbled across on Google?

    As for switching roles, some women just don't like men being in charge... If my husband tried bossing me around he'd get a serious wake up call
    your post stinks of unislamic nature, I feel.

    anyways:

    https://islamqa.info/en/3285
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Serinity View Post
    your post stinks of unislamic nature, I feel.

    anyways:

    https://islamqa.info/en/3285

    I'm simply asking if it's an authentic hadith as not all hadiths are authentic.
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    Re: Where are the brothers for their brothers?

    Yeah..I didnt even understand what is the OP trying to say? Who needs help?
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