Is being emotionless good?

**The-Deist** · 03-21-2016

For example this has helped me dump the fake people and find real people. But also I feel no genuine feelings for anyone.

Also I want to add that I noticed some people are emotionally weak and can not break up with people/leave friends.

Your opinion?

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by ~ Sabr ~

He's Angry because he is narrow minded and can't find a way out...He'a angry because he is best mates with Shayatan

Lol, I was angry as a Muslim.

**Serinity** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by The-Deist

Lol, I was angry as a Muslim.

Then the problem is with you. Why are you angry? Because of the people? why?

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by Serinity

Then the problem is with you. Why are you angry? Because of the people? why?

People piss me off.

**Serinity** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by The-Deist

People piss me off.

Why? Why do they piss you off?

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by Serinity

Because you think you are better than them? Or they just piss you off because you find them sooo ignorant? so blind? Why? Why do they piss you off?

Various reasons.

**Serinity** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by The-Deist

Various reasons.

OK, then stay angry. lol.

**M.I.A.** · 03-24-2016

My dad always says, they can't all be wrong can they?

..learning to grow up is very hard.

People will never stop peeing you off.. But you are only accountable for the choices you make.

Allah swt will be the one to tell you the truth of all that you did.

Don't get trolled to death.

...don't become smeegle!

**~ Sabr ~** · 03-24-2016

I think this person is a troll.

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by ~ Sabr ~

I think this person is a troll.

Yeah I have been trolling for a year.

***charisma*** · 03-24-2016

Well, you do seem to have a lot of time on your hands, being angry and all without people in your life.

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by *charisma*

Well, you do seem to have a lot of time on your hands, being angry and all without people in your life.

Without people in my life???

**M.I.A.** · 03-24-2016

Getting angry at the internet is one of my favourite hobbies...

So I can kinda relate.

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by M.I.A.

Getting angry at the internet is one of my favourite hobbies...

So I can kinda relate.

I don't get angry at the internet.

***charisma*** · 03-24-2016

Yup.

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by *charisma*

Yup.

Yup?

**greenhill** · 03-24-2016

Emotions, senses, desires, mind and conscience are all part (I may have omitted some) of the gift that comes in this world. The choices we make are ours.

Strength is within. It is not about the results. Not at all. It is about your resolve and action.

To combine all those gifts that make life so rich, I have also successfully controlled my emotions from a very young age. I'm like an elastic band, emotionally. Never allowing myself to get too happy or sad. I also knew that I make who I am, now and the future, nobody else. As I learn, no internet those days... it was only recent. So knowledge was hard to get.. but I knew life is a test. And anger is tiring. Resentment is tiring, even more so if it is not used to spurr you into something better but instead sit there and burn inside.

That was a test, you failed!

You were angry as a muslim, you said, are you not a muslim now? Still angry? It feels to me that it has nothing to do with the deen. You're just an angry person.

But if you are still very young, I think you are thinking way too far ahead into a world you really don't know. And worst still, decide the fate of your entire life based on teenage uncertainty, moulding your coming years on your negative understanding..

Why don't you explore what these years have to offer. It is a learning period, so LEARN, don't decide already what is good or not. That is stupid. Before you do it yoy're already saying no, it is hard, I'm not going to like it, so, what are the chances of success? Almost zero. Then it fails, See? I told you! Self fulfilling prophecy. Plenty of that, it soon becomes, "Oh, I'm such a failure.... " blah blah blah..

Go out, live! Remember Allah. Discover yourself and learn how to serve Him in your life. Still do things and learn.

There is no gain at all to harbour anger. Let it slip through your fingers and toes and get on with the blessings (and trials) of life, you will find it very nice.. why? Because you have peace of mind.

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by greenhill

Emotions, senses, desires, mind and conscience are all part (I may have omitted some) of the gift that comes in this world. The choices we make are ours.

Strength is within. It is not about the results. Not at all. It is about your resolve and action.

To combine all those gifts that make life so rich, I have also successfully controlled my emotions from a very young age. I'm like an elastic band, emotionally. Never allowing myself to get too happy or sad. I also knew that I make who I am, now and the future, nobody else. As I learn, no internet those days... it was only recent. So knowledge was hard to get.. but I knew life is a test. And anger is tiring. Resentment is tiring, even more so if it is not used to spurr you into something better but instead sit there and burn inside.

That was a test, you failed!

You were angry as a muslim, you said, are you not a muslim now? Still angry? It feels to me that it has nothing to do with the deen. You're just an angry person.

But if you are still very young, I think you are thinking way too far ahead into a world you really don't know. And worst still, decide the fate of your entire life based on teenage uncertainty, moulding your coming years on your negative understanding..

Why don't you explore what these years have to offer. It is a learning period, so LEARN, don't decide already what is good or not. That is stupid. Before you do it yoy're already saying no, it is hard, I'm not going to like it, so, what are the chances of success? Almost zero. Then it fails, See? I told you! Self fulfilling prophecy. Plenty of that, it soon becomes, "Oh, I'm such a failure.... " blah blah blah..

Go out, live! Remember Allah. Discover yourself and learn how to serve Him in your life. Still do things and learn.

There is no gain at all to harbour anger. Let it slip through your fingers and toes and get on with the blessings (and trials) of life, you will find it very nice.. why? Because you have peace of mind.

Yeah, the reason I replied I was angry as a Muslim too was because Sabr seems to think all problems arise when you become non-Muslim, which is ignorant honestly.

**greenhill** · 03-24-2016

Ok... how does that contribute or relates to what I was saying?

I did say, you were angry as a muslim, so you are not a muslim now, but still angry, so I reckon it has nothing to do with the deen. You are just an angry person, no? What has that got to do with what Sabr said? I don't get it.

**Kiro** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by The-Deist

People piss me off.

ommmaaaaaah goooosh please stop peeing.

**The-Deist** · 03-24-2016

Originally Posted by greenhill

Ok... how does that contribute or relates to what I was saying?

I did say, you were angry as a muslim, so you are not a muslim now, but still angry, so I reckon it has nothing to do with the deen. You are just an angry person, no? What has that got to do with what Sabr said? I don't get it.

Yes I do admit I can get angry and maybe it's something to work on. Also sometimes you feel the anger and it's great to let it out.