Planning to get Married while having no full time job (OP)
Aslamoaleikum dear Brothers and sisters,
I am in my late twenties and willing to get married. I have been earning reasonable in the past but because of my family financial situation in the past I couldn't get married as I had to support them. For the last couple of years I am studying in Europe and doing part time job and alhamdulillah supporting myself. I discussed my case with my parents and they said until and unless you are financially stable and settled we cant search spouse for you.
Even some families of girls (despite showing interest in me) couldn't move forward; because they want their daughter's husband to be settled and having full time job. I also tried myself but every time response is more or less same with different words i.e Where you work and how much you earn.
Most of my search is focused in my home country as I think eventually I will go back but this point "Guaranteed Career" is a hurdle as I don't know myself where I will be working in future (here in Europe or my home country).
Many of my friends pursuing higher education face similar problems. Any suggestion how to assure "Guaranteed Career" while studying?
Re: Planning to get Married while having no full time job
Not much 2-3 months until my graduation. Yes I am doing masters
format_quote Originally Posted by Bhabha
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I also face the same struggle lol. People are not interested in marrying someone who is still studying. Unfortunately and if you are doing graduate studies overseas, even less because technically we are not "financially" stable.
Although you are a guy and I am a girl, both face the same barriers for marriage.
How long until your schooling is finished ? Are you doing graduate studies?
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