People you do not like by first impression by the face (OP)
I am kind of lost in this. I have the feeling about it, but i am not sure where to place it.
There are people you will see in your life, you haven't even said hello or how are you doing. You don't know them and they don't know you..just by seeing their face ..you do not like them. I am sure many of us have experienced this also.
Why is this? Is this because they lack noor? Or is it from sheytan this feeling? Or is it maybe a psychological thing?
Re: People you do not like by first impression by the face
format_quote Originally Posted by piXie
In General, our face is a mirror to what is in our heart. Goodness shows on a persons face and the same with evilness. To a certain extent - our traits and personality show on the face and in the way we conduct & carry ourselves. While there is truth in this and a person shouldn't completely ignore their feelings, we should also be aware that often we can misread or judge - and it can also be a reflection of our own negitivity.
This thread reminded me of the Hadith below;
Weren't there two companions who didn't get along with eachother and so got divorced because of it??
Re: People you do not like by first impression by the face
i think it could be something to do with ... us meeting people in the world of souls!
our souls met each other before we were sent down to this world, and those who we've met over there, we'll be comfortable/at ease with them over here too!, and those who we havn't we'd feel uneasy [ref: the great white Shaykh again, Hamza Yusuf! ]
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If get this feeling of not liking someone by looking at their face its usually because they display a form of arrogance and pride in the way they look,walk,move and talk to others.
Basically they display themselfs as better than everybody else and i can tell by just looking at someone if they are like that i feel like
Re: People you do not like by first impression by the face
format_quote Originally Posted by Slaveofthelord
If get this feeling of not liking someone by looking at their face its usually because they display a form of arrogance and pride in the way they look,walk,move and talk to others.
Basically they display themselfs as better than everybody else and i can tell by just looking at someone if they are like that i feel like
But the question is not, they way the walk, move, talk. Picture this, you see a person..ONLY his face. He has not say even a word. He has not smiled or maybe even smiled..was not angry nothing of the negative emotions were shown on his face. Yet something emanating from his face that you very dislike.
This i am not getting from people. Are people saying those souls were already "EVIL" before being born in this world??? I mean not getting along with a certain individual, doesn't mean those guys are bad guys. Your wave lengths as i call it just don't sync, however neither of the people are bad people. To give a better example. Some people find lame jokes super funny, i don't. Does this make them bad people? No they like certain things that i dislike and they dislike certain things that i like. So neither of us would probably hang out with each other as friends because laughter at the same kind of things is a big part of friendship. So it has NOTHING to do with any of this.
So please if somebody can clarify this for me, because till now i have seen as no soul is a bad soul before being born in this life. Good people lean towards other good people agreed and nothing wrong with it but are you then saying apparently one can see that that certain individual is a "bad" person? Till now i have read i believe two people saying that what is in the heart emanates from the face.
The rest is saying either i am a lunatic ...(you are entitled to your opinion), some others are saying you are judging a book by it's cover (no offense, but you haven't pondered about what i have been trying to explain), another group is only quoting the hadith about the place where the souls reside before being born (also to you guys no offense, but also with this is a lack of pondering as i already said souls are not bad before their are born -do correct me if i am wrong about this). Another group says this might POSSIBLY be because of your previous experiences that your mind might have remembered and you see the same stare as the stare of people doesn't change doesn't matter who it is ..which is logical and rational explanation..good input. The last group says that what resides in the heart emanates from the face and a brother gave me proof of this apparently also exists.
I know i am a lunatic, but a good one that asks questions . Simple_Lunatic .
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Simple answer is to be brief-Read its commentary:
When souls were created,some found affinity with each other &some didn't. Souls are of two types -good souls & bad souls .
When you come to this world, you recognize those with your type "characteristics" habits&goodness &you immediately recognize them !Though it doesn't mean that those friendships will last for years but a good impression is laid on the similar kinda soul&you remember such people!
Other than that you see someone at first &you don't recognize them or feel repelled ,it doesn't means they always bad or won't change .At times they change but basically, the "hadeeth'refers to people of same interests ,virtue, piety&qualities that makes them bonded... Like we see on forums/Twitter etc .We don't even know those people but by getting to know their view points, you get "my similar soul or twin soul"
At the same time you recognize some people but you don't know them well & you think they are like you though they turn out to be somewhat different than what we perceived-Wrong type or not virtuous
Though both kind of people can change, bad into good but I'm not sure reading about pious because it's their fitrah&I'm talking of those pious people who turn towards Islam &occupy the good understanding of Deen with good qualities!
Also,as you say just by looking at some peoples face ,you get this siren in mind-No!
It happens ...
It alludes to an individual's Firasah(foresight) at times & such things.
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