It can be definitely intimidating to try and find a spouse locally, especially if you don't already have connections with other Muslims (if you do, just let people know you're looking to marry, and if Allah wills, someone will get back to you).
As a fallback, realistic option, you can try www.purematrimony.com (don't take this wrong, it's legitimately the most "pure" Muslim marriage site you can find, and I personally found my own spouse there ). You'll definitely do a double-take on this option, but keep it around; bookmark it or something. You can find a spouse through any means, given they're Halal, and there's nothing wrong with a controlled (i.e. monitored for misbehavior), meaningful, and sincere search through an online service. P.S. I have no affiliations with them except that I found my own there. But note, it costs money, but that is only a positive, because it ensures only serious people actually register, and there's plenty!
JazakhAllah Khair.If all else fails I will try this.Its a good website Ive heard of it.Thank you
format_quote Originally Posted by Amalalharbi
If racism does not concern you and you have curiosity about some things in some countries, why not you try entering the Islamic University
They wouldnt accept me in an islamic university.There were so many people wanting to enter that some friends I had,had to wait for years and were backed by imams to secure a place
Re: Does muslim girls accept converts? What do they require? How to a her on the stre
Salam Alaikum all Wasalaam
So I dont have contact with muslims except sometimes on internet (And the other times?) and I am completely ignorant (I really believe this after reading all your questions) when it comes to this subject.(And beyond this subject it seems BUT I still believe you)
Is it true that is very hard to find a girl if you are not arab? ( Yes Very hard - Muslims who aren't Arab suddenly populate in a Manufacturing plant)
Is it true that you need to pay mahr and it is usually 5.000-10.000 euros/dollars? (This might shock you but sometimes they even ask for it in other currencies - example You know how you thought that only Arabs marry well - believe it it not they use their own currency at times - Hope this is not getting too difficult for you to keep up)
What actually do they require in general ( What made you use the word "Actually" - ?)
If you see her on the street and you like her,do you just go and ask her wali or what? How sisters want to be approached (How would you even know whether she is married or not leave alone even reaching the approach part? - Jumping the gun there mate)
How to spot a convert?(Using 3D sunglasses)
Do they want to work or let the man provide everything for the family?(Both)
I know how it should be but I am curious how it is in real like (So in other words your "how it should be" is an imagination you created ?)
Re: Does muslim girls accept converts? What do they require? How to a her on the stre
format_quote Originally Posted by Supernova
Salam Alaikum all Wasalaam
So I dont have contact with muslims except sometimes on internet (And the other times?) and I am completely ignorant (I really believe this after reading all your questions) when it comes to this subject.(And beyond this subject it seems BUT I still believe you)
Is it true that is very hard to find a girl if you are not arab? ( Yes Very hard - Muslims who aren't Arab suddenly populate in a Manufacturing plant)
Is it true that you need to pay mahr and it is usually 5.000-10.000 euros/dollars? (This might shock you but sometimes they even ask for it in other currencies - example You know how you thought that only Arabs marry well - believe it it not they use their own currency at times - Hope this is not getting too difficult for you to keep up)
What actually do they require in general ( What made you use the word "Actually" - ?)
If you see her on the street and you like her,do you just go and ask her wali or what? How sisters want to be approached (How would you even know whether she is married or not leave alone even reaching the approach part? - Jumping the gun there mate)
How to spot a convert?(Using 3D sunglasses)
Do they want to work or let the man provide everything for the family?(Both)
I know how it should be but I am curious how it is in real like (So in other words your "how it should be" is an imagination you created ?)
Nice colors .... Alaikum Salam we rahmetullah we barakatuh and Jummah Mubarak
Re: Does muslim girls accept converts? What do they require? How to a her on the stre
format_quote Originally Posted by DyingLight
They wouldnt accept me in an islamic university.There were so many people wanting to enter that some friends I had,had to wait for years and were backed by imams to secure a place
May Allah grant you which is best for you, keep going Allah the Exalted says: 'I am as my slave expects me to be' Allah will make your life more easier and if Islamic university or an Arab girl is good for you may Allah make it easy for you brother.
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). You'll definitely do a double-take on this option, but keep it around; bookmark it or something. You can find a spouse through any means, given they're Halal, and there's nothing wrong with a controlled (i.e. monitored for misbehavior), meaningful, and sincere search through an online service. P.S. I have no affiliations with them except that I found my own there. But note, it costs money, but that is only a positive, because it ensures only serious people actually register, and there's plenty!
.... Alaikum Salam we rahmetullah we barakatuh and Jummah Mubarak
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