To my Brothers & Sisters in Islam I request you to make a prayer for me that our Lord Allah sets me free from the love i feel for a girl though my intentions for her are pure i want to marry her but since she doesn't feel the same its not possibleI don't want to create any problems in her life to pursue her any further is wrongI have tried everything to get her off my heart and mind but i have failed for so long I have suffered a lot even when i keep myself busy i see her in my dreams so far i met her in my dreams 4 to 5 times where do i run away I have prayed to be free from this love but for some reason its taking a delaydon't pray that she loves me back as that's wrong she was given free "will" changing her path for a selfish reason Is wrong she has the right to love whoever she wants Making a prayer is like forcing her to love me back I don't want that so don't pray for that Just pray that Allah sets me completely free from the love i feel for her
Some things are too hard to talk to anyone else. It's nice you turn to Allah. Seek refuge and then u'll have to work more on will power and changing the mindset. If she's for you, qadr has a way for things. F she's not for you, maybe sumone better is reserved for u. Take things simple. F u think about her in times, it's alright...but know d limits to imaginations to avoid mental zina or fornication.
Some things are too hard to talk to anyone else. It's nice you turn to Allah. Seek refuge and then u'll have to work more on will power and changing the mindset. If she's for you, qadr has a way for things. F she's not for you, maybe sumone better is reserved for u. Take things simple. F u think about her in times, it's alright...but know d limits to imaginations to avoid mental zina or fornication.
Thanks for taking time to reply .My dreams are not like that about her
In one of my dreams i saw her in grand mosque of Mecca .i would never touch her in reality or dream , I refuse to dishonor her like making her my girlfriend so I asked her for marriage instead , love is respect .if she had said yes i would have brought her to meet my mother first as a mother has right to know before anyone .As for qadr = fate , i believe our lord Allah gave us complete free will ,its our choice to be with who .People use qadr / fate to blame Allah when things don't work out its never Allah almighty fault , nor do i blame her .I just want my suffering to end soon , i know my prayers are not unanswered this is one of odd case delay , sometimes its better to ask others to pray for you as when more people pray the prayer gets answered quicker .
Akhi, I make this dua every day for all muslims including myself. If you are a muslim when I make this dua, you are already included without you asking or knowing it.
It is the supplication the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa salaam often made : Al Baqarah 201
Qatadah asked Anas: Which Supplication would the Prophet (ﷺ) often make ? He replied: The supplication he would usually recite was: "O Allah, give us in this world what is good and in the next what is good, and protect us from the punishment of Hell-fire". The version of Ziyad adds: When Anas wished to supplicate, he uttered this supplication. When he uttered some other supplication, he combined it with this supplication. (Abu Dawud)
Keep your ibadat and increase it whichever you can do to bring you closer to Allah. With Him is the best and the best to hope for.
He is the only One who knows what is best for you and the only One who can grant it.
Make dua for a spouse that is good for you and you are good for her, dunya and akhira. InshaAllah you will be granted.
Jabir bin 'Abdullah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:'A slave (of Allah) shall not believe until he believes in Al-Qadar, its good and its bad, such that he knows that what struck him would not have missed him, and that what missed him would not have struck him." (Jami 'at Tirmidhi)
Salaam Shayan. You saw her in a dream in Mecca ?? Did the girl seemed religious to you?
Also did you ever did any magic on her through numbers or jinn to get her..... many people do I did as well
Sometimes it is difficult to forget a person ....it happens with everyone not just you.
Especially if two ppl were close to each other. The only way to forget her is to keep busy with other things and make new friends. And just think she is dead.
Sometimes close people die. Sometimes they marry. If the girl marries and if u see her pictures with someone else will u forget her?
Akhi, I make this dua every day for all muslims including myself. If you are a muslim when I make this dua, you are already included without you asking or knowing it.
It is the supplication the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa salaam often made : Al Baqarah 201
Qatadah asked Anas: Which Supplication would the Prophet (ﷺ) often make ? He replied: The supplication he would usually recite was: "O Allah, give us in this world what is good and in the next what is good, and protect us from the punishment of Hell-fire". The version of Ziyad adds: When Anas wished to supplicate, he uttered this supplication. When he uttered some other supplication, he combined it with this supplication. (Abu Dawud)
Keep your ibadat and increase it whichever you can do to bring you closer to Allah. With Him is the best and the best to hope for.
He is the only One who knows what is best for you and the only One who can grant it.
Make dua for a spouse that is good for you and you are good for her, dunya and akhira. InshaAllah you will be granted.
Just saying prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Means may Allah grant peace and blessing upon prophet .You didn't mention the name and since there are many prophets of Allah its better to name the last and final Prophet Mohammad then say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam . thank you for making such dua for us . yes i am a servant to Allah its my honor to be .
Salaam Shayan. You saw her in a dream in Mecca ?? Did the girl seemed religious to you?
Also did you ever did any magic on her through numbers or jinn to get her..... many people do I did as well
Sometimes it is difficult to forget a person ....it happens with everyone not just you.
Especially if two ppl were close to each other. The only way to forget her is to keep busy with other things and make new friends. And just think she is dead.
Sometimes close people die. Sometimes they marry. If the girl marries and if u see her pictures with someone else will u forget her?
wa alaykum as-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh ,Yes i saw her in mecca in my dream she seemed religious she was near me and it we all were performing salah . as for jin or magic i have never done such things on her or anyone nor will i ever .i don't want invoke wrath of my lord Allah on me .i don't need help from jins or magic .
Hasbunallahu wa ni'mal wakil. As for just thinking she is dead that's sound horrible i respect the fact she doesn't feel same its alright its not wrong to not love me back not everyone in this world gets loved back , I am just among that .
I still have Allah and my mother that worries a lot . i am grateful to Allah .
I do keep myself busy but even after months of not thinking about her when all of sudden she is in my dream it causes confusion .
I can help you.
Tell me where did u meet her?
My aunty is buzurg. She helps with these things. When did u last met her in real life?
Do you know the date
I can help you
You will forget her completely and move on
If the girl marries and if u see her pictures with someone else will u forget her?
Regarding if she gets married to someone else and i see her pictures with someone else will i forget her , whenever we meet after such event may be i will congratulate her and give her my best wishes as that's the right thing to do . forget her i dont think we ever forget the people we love, we just try to live without them and if we get married to someone else then its our responsibility to honor the commitment and care for them ,though it might be difficult for me to love someone else i fear that .
I can help you.
Tell me where did u meet her?
My aunty is buzurg. She helps with these things. When did u last met her in real life?
Do you know the date
I can help you
You will forget her completely and move on
She was my classmate long ago then i met her again this time my heart fell for her , I can't remember the date .Just pray for me that be a good help that was motive of my post so others pray , if your aunty is very religious its good just ask her to pray nothing else .
Or if it still weighs on ur mind...both the girl and other personal issues...im not the very religious type but i think d most practical way to divert ur focus is to do dhikr instead. .that way, even though u'r busy with work, dhikr wl not hinder ur hectic sched. More istighfar maybe.
Just saying prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Means may Allah grant peace and blessing upon prophet .You didn't mention the name and since there are many prophets of Allah its better to name the last and final Prophet Mohammad then say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam . thank you for making such dua for us . yes i am a servant to Allah its my honor to be .
All muslims know Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is only meant for Prophet Muhammad. Other prophets only receive the blessing 'Alayhi salaam.
and you're welcome. I am too, a servant of Allah.
edit: and this is my last post on this thread
Last edited by IslamLife00; 05-20-2021 at 09:48 PM.
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Jabir bin 'Abdullah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:'A slave (of Allah) shall not believe until he believes in Al-Qadar, its good and its bad, such that he knows that what struck him would not have missed him, and that what missed him would not have struck him." (Jami 'at Tirmidhi)
All muslims know Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is only meant for Prophet Muhammad. Other prophets only receive the blessing 'Alayhi salaam.
I hope what you said above is in a verified hadith or mentioned in Quran since you didn't mention by giving a reference i can't check to verify your words , i love the name of the last and final prophet of Allah , prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
and i believe saying his name will only grant me more sawab = reward so i will always prefer that . my intention was not offend you or show that i am better in any way if it gave that impression i apologize .knowing is one thing and words meaning is different.
Or if it still weighs on ur mind...both the girl and other personal issues...im not the very religious type but i think d most practical way to divert ur focus is to do dhikr instead. .that way, even though u'r busy with work, dhikr wl not hinder ur hectic sched. More istighfar maybe.
not very religious type just carry the islam in your heart that's what matter the most even if you can't in looks , inshallah i will increase my dhikr , though i already do istighfar as it cleans us from sins but I will increase that too more the better . thank you .
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