Hello, I've come here after months of trying and doing my best but now I just find myself demotivated. It's been almost a year since I was married to my husband, and with good moments there are also a lot of bad ones. My husband cares for his mother then he does for me is sometimes what I feel. It's like the things his mother required of him, from driving her around for her own things etc I have to do them. And if his mom is happy with me only then he is happy with me, otherwise I'm subjected to his anger. And whenever we go out the seldom times we do he always takes his mom with him. It doesn't feel like a marriage. She's always with us and he's too daft to understand quality time. Prior to marriage I had a job, he made me leave, (I also wanted to leave because there wasn't any growth) but assured that I can have a job, after marriage he refuses to send me on onsite jobs just insists I do remote work, my work isn't the type that can be remote.... On the other hand I'm struggling to gain skills to have remote work and his mom saying there's no need for women to work, makes me soo disheartened cause I know she just wants me to do all the work from taking her to parlours to grocery. And then if I'm not in the mood gets passive aggressive and gives silent treatment. If I try and convince my husband that at least take me out twice a month just us two, he nods in agreement but doesn't, always makes up and excuses. He doesn't even let me properly express if I'm angry, goes bonkers doesn't talk to me for weeks stays out late comes back at 5 in the morning, and just treatsme like ----. I find myself just taking care of his parents serve them this serve them that, and when by some weird turn of events we were alone at home and everyone was at this relatives party and I was trying to tell that we should spend some time, he quickly gets ready and shoots to the party, there wasn't any issue if we didn't come. I just feel really demotivated. Can anyone tell me Hadith related to helping inlaws always doing their bidding because otherwise the husband looses his mind, and for the sake of avoiding fights you end up doing it. What sawab has Allah instored what can I hope for for doing these things.