Asalamu alaikum,
I think I know what she means...since I've become Muslim, I seem to be getting some non-muslims saying I'm not 'fun' any more...its not that I'm not 'fun' any more, its just that my idea of what 'fun' is, is usually not what a non-muslim's idea of 'fun' is.
Some of my friends, enjoy going out to parties, getting drunk, trying to get a guy, dancing, and gettin home late at night (I am not implying this about your mother at all, just using an example, lol).... I would absolutely hate that, I couldn't bring myself to do it! Why? Because I would be disobeying Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) the one who created me, the one who looks after me, the one who brought me to Islam and made me know what my purpose is, subhanAllah. How could I enjoy disobeying Him (swt)?
What I enjoy is learning about Islam, talking about Islam with my friends, going to talks about Islam
. I think maybe you should try and find out if your mother truly believes in Allah(swt) and His deen and if she wants to please Allah and if she does, try and explain to her that obeying Allah(swt) and his rules in the Quran and following the Sunnah of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasalam) is the only way to please Him(swt)....and even if she sees Islam as not being fun now, then once she starts learning more about it she will love it
MashaAllah sis, its amazing that your mother has said Islam is the truth, jazakAllah for showing her Islam, I pray she is guided to the straight path by Allah(swt) and everything goes well for you both... and I pray that I can help show my family Islam and that Allah(swt) guides them.
Salam
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