the obstacles infront of muslim sisters!

**muslimah_here** · 05-12-2006

Why is even musli parents try to to discourage their daughters from waearing hijaab, even though they know it stated clearly in the

**Ghazi** · 05-12-2006

Really subhanallah, well the children in this case have the right to disobey their parents.

**x Maz x** · 05-12-2006

Do they?...SubhanAllah shouldnt the parents ask the daughter to wear hijaab? I mean afterall if they knew the true essence in preserving it they would try to make their daughter understand and convince her...you know so many people have gon about incidents like these occuring but myself i have not personally witnessed any of my friends sayin this, quite shocking...WalaykumAsalaam x

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-12-2006

i think its cos parents care wot ovas tink of dem & not wot Allah (swt) tinks, wen dats d most important & dey tink dat d kid is sumhow becomin a extremist lol, weird forts & weird ppl!!! WEIRDOOOOOOOOOS

**x Maz x** · 05-12-2006

Yeh bruda Abd' Majid was saying how if they had a beard down his ends he be seen as extremists...! Ya waaaaaaaaaah whats next? wear a niqaab and your considered a terrorist? Oopsy is that the case alread *eyes rolly* subhanAllah before forcing the daghter/son to practice the deen by preserving hijaab/keeping beard...try informing and helping them learn about the deen InshAllah

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-12-2006

yaa lik wen i start wearin my long hijab lol d islamic long kurta tin, ppl wud stare @ moi & stuf & wen i joked or smiled or wud b runnin round lol dey wud b shocked lo & i woz lik i am stil d same person!! ppl sadly, even muslim ppl tink, dat jus cos ur a hijabi or u got a islamic kurta top on or a beard u cnt talk, smile hav fun u hav 2 b serious all d time, do ppl get moi! but mashallah its only a small minority, well i hav only met a small minority dat tink lik dat

Ya Allah (saw) let d ummah rise again!!!!!

**x Maz x** · 05-12-2006

Ameen, You mean Jubbah?... the hijaabi boy wow never thought i here that one, me ol' codger your humorous, gotta give ya that! Yuh i gets exactly what you mean its like when ma goreh mates << not Muslims see me wearing hijaab they expect a personality change, little to they know its the same random maz

Peace! x

**Syed Nizam** · 05-12-2006

Originally Posted by muslimah_here

Why is even musli parents try to to discourage their daughters from waearing hijaab, even though they know it stated clearly in the

Its simple. They are ignorance about Islam. But worst still, some of them are even afraid of Islam. It's true. I've met this muslim couple who actually thinks that to be modern and civilised one have got to abandon some teachings of Islam. It just like saying blatantly that the teachings of Islam are outdated. Sad...., but true!

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-12-2006

ya its d jubbah,

lol

its dum dow, ppl tink u gona hav a bomb under ur shirt or summin lol, but i no dis mite not b 100% tru but i fink muslims r demselfs 2 blame 4 dis, cos we c sum bros dat put on d jabbah & act lik muslim gangstas lol u no dat style & sum hijabi sistas, put d hijab on from home den go 2 d bus stop & take it off lol, i tink ppl jus tink dat dey r either forced 2 wear it or dey hav been brainwashed n dey r terrorists lol, i dunno Allah (swt) knows best man

**Hijaabi22** · 05-12-2006

Originally Posted by muslimah_here

Why is even musli parents try to to discourage their daughters from waearing hijaab, even though they know it stated clearly in the

I NEVER WILL UNDERSTAND

**Hijaabi22** · 05-12-2006

Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi

ya its d jubbah,

lol

its dum dow, ppl tink u gona hav a bomb under ur shirt or summin lol, but i no dis mite not b 100% tru but i fink muslims r demselfs 2 blame 4 dis, cos we c sum bros dat put on d jabbah & act lik muslim gangstas lol u no dat style & sum hijabi sistas, put d hijab on from home den go 2 d bus stop & take it off lol, i tink ppl jus tink dat dey r either forced 2 wear it or dey hav been brainwashed n dey r terrorists lol, i dunno Allah (swt) knows best man

NOTHIN TO BE EMBARASSED BOUT BRO, U SHUD BE PROUD!! HOLD YA HEAD HIGH N DO NOT LET EM GET 2 U!!

Luk hus talkin lol i cant even get myself to wear the scrf astagfrullah

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-12-2006

lol i am proud, i woz jus makin me point lol & i dnt let em get 2 me lol

inshallah Allah (swt) wil make u wear scarfs ameen!!

**x Maz x** · 05-13-2006

Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi

ya its d jubbah,

lol

its dum dow, ppl tink u gona hav a bomb under ur shirt or summin lol, but i no dis mite not b 100% tru but i fink muslims r demselfs 2 blame 4 dis, cos we c sum bros dat put on d jabbah & act lik muslim gangstas lol u no dat style & sum hijabi sistas, put d hijab on from home den go 2 d bus stop & take it off lol, i tink ppl jus tink dat dey r either forced 2 wear it or dey hav been brainwashed n dey r terrorists lol, i dunno Allah (swt) knows best man

I gets you, but quite honestly i havent seen bwoys << Pakis in particular that think they all rude wearing Jubbas, think that gonna ruin the rude bwoy rep!...But MashAllah if i see Paki bwoys wearing it...Woooh proud of them bredas! Big uppp....I know, but erm isit bad to wear a hijaab and hoody

or is that not right?

Peace! x

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-13-2006

wot rong wit hijab n hoody lol? well depends how u wear it n wot ur niyyah 4 wearin is! hmmm sis der r sum gangsta 1s!!!

i think it depends on areas n d upbringin cos dey feel dey gota act in a certain way

**IbnAbdulHakim** · 05-13-2006

Originally Posted by muslimah_here

Why is even musli parents try to to discourage their daughters from waearing hijaab, even though they know it stated clearly in the

lol incomplete sentence
and its out of fear for society and wantin safety 4 ur children

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-13-2006

ameen

n it dnt really help wen u hear in d news muslims discriminated or girl banned from skool 4 wear jilbaab, it is fear of wot ppl wil fink of dem or do 2 em

**x Maz x** · 05-13-2006

Laugh out lout, Ameen,....Yeh true say chacha_jalebi! and seeker_of_ilm akhi MashAllah well said, true ting about niyaah...InshAllah gotta b pure, well Allah guide the youth to deen-ul-haaq! WalaykumASALAAM X

**x Maz x** · 05-13-2006

Ironic thing is, that gyal resides by the town i do in, and i have many views about her approach to tackling the situation, stories that are better left unsaid InshAllah, anywho Allah knows best WalaykumAsalaam x

**------** · 05-13-2006

wear a niqaab and your considered a terrorist?

Yep. Nowadays anyway

**muslimah_here** · 05-15-2006

as its is society makes its so difficult to follow islam properly n parents make it worse especially with comments like oh no would would wana get married to you if u wear a proper hijaab, wear it after u get married, would any good muslimah want to get married to some one who thinks hijaab is symbol being too religious its compulsory infact. All my life iv been hearing from my relative its wahts in ur heart that counts most, it really used to puzzle me even as a kid caz Iv seen muslims practising especailly during ramadhan and at time ignoring everything. Allhumdolilah my eyes are opened by grace of ALLAh even though I wish i was a practising muslim from my childhood I have to blame partly my parents for putting so much emphasis on culture rather than relgion especially the bollywood culture that is dominating asian muslims.

I hope INSHALLAH ill have the confidence and strenght to overcome this naive mentality my relatives n family have and follow Quran n sunnah the way it shoudl be followed INSHALLAh.

ok ALLAHAFIZ.