Handbags and Hijabs

format_quote Originally Posted by mm_ca04

Well... You don't know why the non hijaabi woman is not wearin hijaab. She could have a reason. Maybe her parents are not letting her, and she's tryin to convince them. Maybe she wasn't religios all her life, and she's slowly making the move towards wearing the hijaab.

Allahu a'lam!

May Allah SWT guide all our sisters to the right path and make it easy for them to obey Allah's commands.

No I meant the non-hijabi woman seemed more modest than the hijabi woman. Non-hijabi may not have been Muslim either anyway.

4 a married women it dsnt matta,if da hijab gal was mrried den it wudnt ad matta coz dat is allowd n islam

mmca4....if her husband lets her den she cud dress da way she wants if she goes out in jeans n a hijab dat dsnt matta coz her husband lets her so ppl cnt argue wiv dat..

abdul bro den dats da husbands fault coz hes gna get gunnah 4 dat but its nt da wifes fault dat she has 2 dress lyk dat shes makin her husband happy by bein lyk dat n allah says u av 2 keep ur husband happy 2 do these tingz

Assalamu alaikum

I agree with mm_ca's stance on this matter, Allah is to be obeyed before anyone else. That is clear from the hadith she has posted too.

I would like to advise members against posting comments without the correct knowledge, we may say something which contradicts the teachings of Islam.

Wasalamu alaikum

format_quote Originally Posted by Abdul

Asalamu Alaikum

I see a lot of it. Hijab and handbags. Hijab and tight pants. Hijab and long skirts which some believe to be ok Islamicly. Hijab and short skirts, quite possibly?

uh brother are you sayin that some people think its islamically incorrect to wear a long skirt? or did i just get ya rong?

Can we avoid too "ghetto" language.

Assalamoualeïkoum

You are right brother ahm, that sometimes hijaabi muslima are not decents, but, really, I think that they are a minority, Allah commands to women to wear hijaab, it's a rule of Allah, it's a sin not to wear hijaab , but the no hijaabi muslima think according to these deviances, that they r better than hijaabi sisters (and maybe they r, Allahu ahlem) and it's another reason not to wear it. They will say: "oh see this sister, she wears hijaab but she doesn't dress properly, she doesn't pray, contrary to me, i pray and i wear decently, so my situation is better, and i can not wearing hijaab...."

I mean, that they may want to be different to these hijaabi muslima who are not "correct", and it's an excuse for not wearing it perhaps.....

I agree with what mm_ca04 says , and sorry but not with sis Sabina , really sis i can't believe that a husband a muslim, who follows Allah'rules, who follows Allah'way, and message of the prophet saws can oblige his wife to go out with tiny jeans and court t-shirts, i can't believe it, sorry

and pooor sister who is obliged to go out with such shamful clothes :'( :'( , lol, i can't believe that she doesn't want either to put these clothes :zip: ok i shut up now....
excuz me for my bad english

Assalamoualeïkoum

I wanted to add that the medias (films about women in Islam, news....)often give us also a very bad image of Islam, and i really think that contrary to what we see, what we always heard.... the not respectful hijaabi muslima are really a little minority....alhamdoulillah

MashaAllah in majority they r , but we must not base our judgment on the appearance, i know, just Allah knows what there is in hearts and intentions, , but i wanted just to encourage sisters :sister: who wear hijaab , and also the ones who want to wear it inchAllah.
Allah commands to us sisters to wear it , now it's true, that it is not enough at all.... but hijaab is not the problem......

Salam :rainbow:

format_quote Originally Posted by 3washey

Assalamu'Alaykum

everyone here has a point... Mashallah...butttttttt there is something we missing out alot of u here already mentioned it but i will sya it again...

See only Allah knows whos modest and whos not dont jugde others by how they dress, that can be deciving yes of course Allah commanded us women to cover and lower our gaze..

Inshallah those sisters who are not covering can soon cover and those who are dressed up and matching inshallah they will get to know the true meaning of modesty Allah knows whats in the hearts and knows our intentions he is the all knowing all wise...

i know many sisters that cover/dont cover/wear pants and scarf/ wear abay and scarf/ wear niqab/ and all of them know that why should cover and all of them wise they could anywya i dont want to make this long but i know the sisters i know all wish to cover and please Allah but there is something that is stopping them and only Allah knows what that is...

So we are not here to say who is modest and who is not...


And also Allah is our creator if my husband (which i know he wont) tells me to take off my niqab because he doesnt like it... well ummm too bad.

(forgive me if i said anything that might offened you inshallah)

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