It has been brought to my attention that my posts are Offending alot of the Forumers.
Even though i mean well,it seems like alot of people find my posts to be Too Harsh,and also alot of the forumers don't appreciate my constant Sarcasm.
So it all comes down to one thing.
I apologise to each and every member of the forum whom i may have offended.
I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.
I won't make any promises that "I will change" because i don't know if i can,or if i really want to. My ability to be sarcastic all the time is something i am actually proud of. (No lectures needed based on the word 'pride' please) and as for my harshness,..insha'allah i will work on that.
Once again,i sincerly apologise to each and every member of the forum whom i have offended.
God bless,..
Wa'salaam.
-Zubair
Dont Mistake My Harshness For Strength And Neither Mistake My Kindness For Weakness.
zubair brother...u hav more defence on ur side rather than critisism...i think u shud just stay the way that u r n other poeple shud jst accept that and if they hav a problem with u they can cum to u in private or block u or wateva...
as long as u r comfy wit urself and Allah is happy with u inshallah...
During most of the arguements,i have Clearly Said "If you can bring me some hard proof and prove me wrong,i promise i will back off and shut up" but no-one is willing to do so. That isn't my fault,the opportunity is always there,but if you don't take the opportunity,it isn't my fault.
Dont Mistake My Harshness For Strength And Neither Mistake My Kindness For Weakness.
as long as u r comfy wit urself and Allah is happy with u inshallah...
Yes,insha'allah Allah swt is happy with me.
As for me being comfortable with myself,..Most definetly.
I am not comfortable with the fact that i am seen as a arguement-starter by some/alot of members of the Forum. I simply point out the fact (in my own special way...) and i get Pm's and Negative reps 'for not showing adab' when what they really want to say is 'for not agreeing with me'...
...lol,..kheir.
Thanks for your support sis
Dont Mistake My Harshness For Strength And Neither Mistake My Kindness For Weakness.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
I believe the issue is not really whether you're being sarcastic or witty; the real issue is when a reader of your posts BELIEVES that you're personally attacking him/her not the the opinion.
Been there, done that. ;-)
True, it's kinda difficult to de-personalize posts especially when a post is a reply to our own. But we gotta do it.
May I suggest that you read your posts and see whether you have unintentionally discredit the person rather than the opinion brought forth?
People usually associate opinions with personality, which MOST OF THE TIME is not true. People also sometimes fail to COMPROMISE on issues that can be compromised on.
After all, we can only see the product of our minds devoid of HOW the opinion is being conveyed (emotions, gestures, facial expression etc) which I believe is one of the most rudimentary elements of a healthy discussion.
One good thing about writing though, there is plenty of time to think, re think and re evaluate our posts. Read, re read and once you click on that SUBMIT button, you willfully take all the risks that come with it.
At the end of the day, life goes on and the angels, like us, have already written.
Peace.
Takumi Nakashima WattaquLlah(a) wa yu'allimukumuLlah(u)
(Be Mindful of Allah and He will teach you)
it might be a whole lotta crap but i heard sarcasm is a lower form of lying and being hypocritical "NOTE I JUST HEARD" but it isnt a bad saying if u thnk about it.
Also every member should be careful in the manner they post so as not to offend any other members.
ok fat people i have sed wat i must say
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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..there are 3 people to whom i feel i should MENTION when apoligising.
I want to apoligise to :
islam-truth.
Ahmed
and last but not least ;
sonz.
Brothers,please do forgive me,i realise that i have been harsh towards the 3 of you. Even when i had a good reason to be upset/angry at you,..i should have done with it adab.
Dont Mistake My Harshness For Strength And Neither Mistake My Kindness For Weakness.
Hey, Zubair, you ain't got to apologise for being yourself. Okay, those particular people you mentioned do deserve one, but a general apology for everyone? Come on dude, if people who disagree with you hate you solely because they disagree with you, it's not your fault for disagreeing, it's their fault for being silly and not accepting alternative viewpoints.
Hey, Zubair, you ain't got to apologise for being yourself. Okay, those particular people you mentioned do deserve one, but a general apology for everyone? Come on dude, if people who disagree with you hate you solely because they disagree with you, it's not your fault for disagreeing, it's their fault for being silly and not accepting alternative viewpoints.
My two rupees.
i think its good his doin this bro (MashAllah), hek we shud all do this !! But then this whole forum would be flooded wiv apologies :confused:
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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Zubair...The truth is the truth......Even if you put flowers and all sorts of decorations around it....It'll still be the truth....It will always hurt (most of the time...)
But there is a etiquette to dialouge. No?
The prophet (SAW) would always speak with great manners. And he, (SAW), said that 'He who is deprived of gentleness is deprived of good'-Muslim
So since the brother is asking for naseeha, I don't think NAH YOU'RE JUST TELLING IT LIKE IT IS, is a good approach to take. *zip*
It has been brought to my attention that my posts are Offending alot of the Forumers.
Even though i mean well,it seems like alot of people find my posts to be Too Harsh,and also alot of the forumers don't appreciate my constant Sarcasm.
So it all comes down to one thing.
I apologise to each and every member of the forum whom i may have offended.
I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.
I won't make any promises that "I will change" because i don't know if i can,or if i really want to. My ability to be sarcastic all the time is something i am actually proud of. (No lectures needed based on the word 'pride' please) and as for my harshness,..insha'allah i will work on that.
Once again,i sincerly apologise to each and every member of the forum whom i have offended.
God bless,..
Wa'salaam.
-Zubair
well brother i think you are a very cool brother and i lurve your posts they are very good and who cares if your being "sarcastic" thats the point to get it through peoples brain the message duh!! who ever thinks brother Zubair is a nonsence then they MUST be some weirdo's am telling yea he's a laugh and also we are lucky to have a brother like you , whom is very talented and blessed!
anyone takes it the wrong way then it's not your fault but there's that means they need to see the DOCTOR!!:X
take care
P.S.!! NO NEED TO APOLOGISE AT ALL THEY NEED TO DO THAT NOT U!!!
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