Living in the west as muslims, we are subjected to various kinds of Fitnas (trials) which our muslim brethren in muslim countries are saved from. One of these being Free Mixing the intermingling of the sexes. No doubt that this brings with it numourus problems such as Zinaa (fornication) and losinging of morals. As youth, attending public schools, we are at a greater risk and thus most guard ourselves all the time, remembering Allah much and His rights upon us.
Sadly many brothers and sisters are taking these issues very lightly and forgetting that it Indeed is a grave sin. Chatting freely with fellow brothers and sisters, and when reminded they say "He/She is like my own brother/sister, I would never think of him/her in that way!" Little do they know that they are deluding themselfs and letting Shaytaan and their own nafs getting the upper hand over them.
These are some of my own ideas and thoughts on the issue, what are yours? feel free to state your opinions
Bro aamirsaab, what have you got against islam? Your posts sounds like this is all joke to you!
Eh? I think you misunderstood his message.
format_quote Originally Posted by aamirsaab
LOL - im not stupid, man. Yes you are correct in saying that it leads to reproduction - HOWEVER! this is only allowed in islam if the two are married - well thats what iv been told neways.
thats y we as muslims should refrain from meetings with the opposite sex.
What if the relationship started before the woman became Muslim and the brother still contacts the woman yet professes to be the perfect muslim. Where does the sister go for advice? I need to know what the proper etiquette is without dissing the brother. Weihan
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