Where is the muslim sisters?

^^No in some parts of Pakistan, like rural areas or villages, families marry their daughters off to the Qur'an rather than to a male. Almost the same as a nun who doesn't marry and devotes or marries herself to God Astaghfirullah, Na Audhubillah.

Salaam/peace

format_quote Originally Posted by Jazzy

^^No in some parts of Pakistan, like rural areas or villages, families marry their daughters off to the Qur'an rather than to a male. .....

oh my God , this is the first time i've heard of it. They have gone mad ???? Where did they get this idea from ???

I can't believe it.

InshaAllah, Ameen.

Acutally here in Australia the Arab Muslim women complain of there not being enough eligible Muslim batchelors.

Also are Aboriginal women lacking enough eligible Aboriginal batchelors.

Why is it that more male believers looking to marry are in America, I wonder?

I suspect the pop music industry is making all our minds too closely attuned with the American land, but who could be sure of that?

salam

format_quote Originally Posted by Hashim_507

Dating is haram in Islam, I was prefering halal way.

So it must be held to be Haram to have a date.

My own mind is always in a great difficulty in respect of needing a Husband. Because I am totally not culturally enabled to join with mainstream Australian practises.

Even before I re-found my indigenous identity, and became a Muslim, I was always, all my life, terrified by the dating rituals and all that, and so never participated in any mainstream boy girl getting to know each other stuff.

But because the rest of my upbringing was totally mainstream Aussie, it is sort of awkward at the best of times among the majority of the Aboriginal population, although eventually a traditional man tracked me down from a Dream he had and made me a formal proposal. But he would not commit to what I need from a Husband, although he has included me into traditional Pitjintjatjara Kinship, whom, as the custodians of Uluru are an important people, (even if that job is not really well regarded in our old way, in Islam it is alike to owning responsiblity to manage the land adjacent to Ka'ba). But most of the nicest Aborigine men are well married young because there are more nice young women around than men. Same among Arabs, and not being an Arabic speaker, why would an Arab marry me. And so few ordinary Australian men have any inkling as to what Islam really is. Even believers here in Jesus were being lied to and misinformed that Islam is just a cop out of responsibility. Hopefully that problem is being remedied now, and can be remedied quite rapidly, if not very openly. But the fight is a fight between the American evangelists control of Australian churches, and Indigenous control.

But what I need to tell is that the fact of the matter is that as a girl, I simply can not engage in any consideration of any possiblity of any marital like relations with any male, unless he shares cultural belief with me. That is because if the male in the equation is in a different culture, then the female can only experience his approach to her alike to being raped. This is because of the nature of the mechanisms of culture.

I was recently approached by an ordinary mainstream white Australian man, who was really very nice, and interested in me, and possibly even could be able to provide as I need if he could only convert to Islam. But that he had not any culture within which I could relate to him without compromising my own beliefs, meant that we failed to be able to regulate any future meeting. So I guess I will not be marrying any mainstream regular Aussie guy.

But why are there Muslim men in America who can not find a wife, when in many other Muslim oriented communities there are more girls unable to find a Husband?

Salam

format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim Woman

i was thinking about this the other day......many unmarried brothers are here ....ready for marriage ; also many unmarried sisters are there but somehow marriage is not taking place.

I guess , volunteer match makers are very busy now a days. So , u may take help of matmonial sites.....some charge few......some are free.

here is a link


http://www.islamonline.net/Matrimoni...sh/Browse2.asp

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http://www.shaadi.com/matrimonials/muslim-matrimonial

This was so funny looking at these links. In the first at islamonline, just going to the link my whole self felt suddenly alike to being naked, and I could not look any further, but in the second there was no such feeling. Somehow I associated the difference with the colours of the screen. The islamonline page is in purples, and the shaadi one showing a yellow clothed female.

This is what is happening:

Here in Australia there was a traditional marriage meant to take place, between two certain persons, and then shaytans interferred to prevent it because they wanted to keep the female a virgin so as to accuse more easily, and they wanted to keep the male using drugs. Because the two persons are significant in ancestry in the Aboriginal tradition it has effected many other believers here in Australia.

Meanwhile those whom had attuned to the shaytans have been getting married willy nilly all over the place. So all sorts of bad marriages are going ahead and more and more kafir being born. But when we were waiting for a marriage of whom can cause a birth that will ensure the world in Isa. The marriage was to be between the female describe in Revelations as pregnant, and her Husband. He is whom is longer deluded by the shaytan than she, but under her cover to protect herself, he can not recognise her to be not herself a shaytan. And the full story has its outcome in a mass conversion into Islam.

Salam

format_quote Originally Posted by Hashim_507

Culture should not get on your way; all muslims are brothers and sisters. Culture is only people living the way their were raised from there region that had influence their lives. Muslims communities in America does have great communication or interaction for matromonial issues. Its great weakness for muslim communities facing especially in non-muslim nation.

if you look to the actual words you quoted from which I wrote,
there is: "unless he shares culture with me"

meaning that if he so jealously guards what culture he is holding with himself, and will not engage with me from within the culture he knows, He can not have the interaction. From inside real Islam I can, because Islam is adaptable to any culture. Yet if he will not try even, because he is forced into a corrupted culture disenabling his will, then being a girl, it is certainly not for me to get into the realm of what knowledge he requires so as to break into his mind with real Islamic cultural certainty for him to have instead.

Would it have been better in Islam if I and he had rather not even bothered with cultural adherence and just got on with marital relations in public, since that was the full context of the communication possible in the situation?

It is not even a case of inter-racial relations, we are of the same race, and both white, both raised in mainstream culture, but I have found the way of Islam to sustain an awakened mind against entrappment into loss of my will, while he had not yet so found the way, but He being the man, needs. THe interaction is only possible if we meet by accident again and he decides draws me into his mainstream world which I have no access to because of its ills, or if he walks into a Mosque as a means of finding me. I can not effect the situation in the slightest.


But since we are already joined in mind, as though we had married, in a miracle of nature it is already happened without the physical liason, why might I ever want of the bodily relation with such a man? We have found a new meaning for the term "marriage of convenience"