I hope you are in ur good health and Imaan insha'Allah.
how many times in a single day we get mad at our parents? how many times we hear them but not respond to them when they call us? how many times our mom tells us to clean our room...she have been saying dat since past 6 months...do we really listen to her? How many times does ur dad have to tell u to do dis and dat for him? but we don't care.
Sometimes, we are soo busy with what we are doing...we almost forget about our parents...and our duties. Subhan'Allah look at our mom...even though we don't do anything special for her...sometimes yeah we listen to her...but most of the time we are like totally ignoring....just look at her.....when she talks to her friend/sister anyone....she always talk good about us...she tells others how good her grown up kids are masha'Allah.
a mother who carried us for 9 months in her womb, a mother who holds our hand when we were tryna walk for the first time, a same mother who started teaching us read Qur'an and started making u learn poems when u were at the age of 4, then our mother always talks about so and so person who is always obedient to his/her parents...she made us realize how we should treat with elders, a mother who cries at night when she do dua for our future, a mother when u look at her she smiles at you even if she is mad at you....(well she is never mad at u no matter how much u hurt her).....dat same mother today she is turning old day by day n she needs you....oh my brothers and sisters....where are you when ur mother needs you? she had done enuff for you.....u did nothing for her......
not just ur mother....ur father as well....
there are soo many times when we don listen to her we disrespect her.....but she doesn't say a single word.....sometimes we even tell our friends "omg i hate my mother...she is like always telling me to do dis and dat"
really, how can we even say such a thing??? she loves us man...even ur dad...he just doesn't admit...lol all dads are like dat...
my whole point is be nice to ur mother and be there when she needs you...cuz she was there when u needed her....same thing applies to ur father.
mom and mother in law are same thing...seriously.....its just some girls don't get dat part : )
may Allah swt forgive our parents and bless em with lot of happiness in dis world and hereAFter Ameen.
May Allah grant our parents highest degree in paradise Ameen.
May Allah swt make their sickeness go away and give em shifa Ameen.
May Allah swt give hidayah to our young generation especially the one who yet have to come Ameen.
May we unite again in Jannah Ameen.
May we die as shaheed Ameen.
May Allah swt accept our duas Ameen.
waslamaualikum wr wb
Last edited by SalafiFemaleJih; 08-10-2005 at 09:02 PM.
My Muslim Brothers and Sisters Who Are Suffering At The Hands Of The Kuffar...Please Forgive Me...For Every Tear That Falls Down From Your Cheek...For Every Drop Of Blood That Fell From Your Wound...For The Pain You Felt...For Everytime I Wasn't There! www.fearAllah.blogspot.com
Sabr is more than just patience, it gives you the strength to let go what is not worthy of clinging on to. Be strong, and have faith that Allah (swt) is khafur-ul-raheem. If you give up, what do you gain? nothing but you lose so much.
It may be hard for me to step in your shoes because ummati never shouted at me yet alone hit me. May Allah (swt) make her amongst the dwellers of paradise.
Just seek Allah (swt) mercy and continue to have sabr....for patience is so vital. Inshallah i hope Allah (swt) eases your burden
Sister Salafi, good post mashallah
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "The strong man is not one who is good at wrestling, but the strong man is one who controls himself in a fit of rage.'' (Sahih Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
i agree... fighting against them wont help u much... the above hadith says the stronger is the one who controls their anger. try to make them understand first if they're still stubborn... make them feel bad by making them look guilty...
have faith in Allah, for only He can solve your problems
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